Simple question - Can you be friends with the opposite sex without wanting to have sex?
In my opinion no matter how much you deny it there is always that fleeting moment when you think about it.
I can. guys whose personality I like but can't fathom sex with are put in the Friends Zone. I have since come to terms that this rarely works. So I have fewer male friends and I work on keeping them as shallow as possible.
Classic!
yes. and no.
finding men who i never want to have sex wih is easy!
exactly.Yes, but finding women who we (guys) never want to have sex with, but at the same time want to be good friends with, is much tougher. :biggrin1:
Yes - if you know that they have some STD, if you know that they are jealous as fuck or have other psychological issues, if they are ugly and in every other way incompatible.Simple question - Can you be friends with the opposite sex without wanting to have sex?
In my opinion no matter how much you deny it there is always that fleeting moment when you think about it.
Yes - if you know that they have some STD, if you know that they are jealous as fuck or have other psychological issues, if they are ugly and in every other way incompatible.
Some people are really good fun to be with but unless you seek problems, intimacy is best avoided.
Simple question - Can you be friends with the opposite sex without wanting to have sex?
In my opinion no matter how much you deny it there is always that fleeting moment when you think about it.
If I am more than a little sexually attracted to them, then it gets more complicated.
Yes. I have a male friend that I ballroom dance with unbelievably well, but have absolutely no attraction to him whatsoever. None. Zilch. Uh-uh. Ain't never gonna happen, baby.
Then I have the male friends who are undeniably sexy, sweet guys I adore. And yes there are moments when we might stand a little too close when we are a little too drunk and the thought flits through my head, "We could so have sex right now." but we don't act on it.
And then there is SilverTrain. Hmm...