guys i need help lol im 19 and every time i see a hot guy i get hard but for some reason i cant get hard for girls i fucked hot girls before but i went without sex for a while i was watching gay and straight porn and when i got a girl i couldnt get hard but if i see a hot guy i get an instant boner. i love girls every thing about them and i dont want to be with a guy in any way please dont say just face it your gay i dont want to be not saying there is any thing wrong with it but its not for me help please!!
This is really not the place for this posting and it should be relocated or should be a new thread on it's own. I would have placed it under relationships instead of Healthy Penis.
In spite of this here is an attempt at giving you an answer.
Some men go through a period of desire for experimentation with the same sex. For some this will lead to accepting and understanding that they are in fact gay.
In other cases it is a desire for mental exploration and to know what the possibilities are on the other side of the pasture. You may have a time of gay sex and discover during that exploration that the plumbing begins to respond to females again as your need to learn is satisfied.
Many decades ago I went through a similar period in my own life. I was at one time engaged to be married in a purely straight relationship. The whole time this was going on I was playing both sides of the fence. I was, when I accepted who I was physically attracted to both males and females. As I gained sexual experience I found that while I could enjoy the physical attraction to females I could not make the mental connection to them in the same way I could to a male. To this day decades later, I still love the girl who could have ended up my bride. What I am smart enough to understand now is that the relationship would not have worked long term. By the time I had gotten to this fine young lady I was far from a virgin.
You simply have to explore, make no commitments until you are absolutely certain and be careful with whomever you sleep with male or female with regards to STD's.