Can women adjust to a smaller penis after a big one?

[JPoster]

He was like six foot five or six foot six. I found his dick pic in her old phone. When I questioned her about it this whenever she broke down and told me this she fucked him 15 to 20 time she guessed she wasn't real sure... so yeah that shit kinda hurts. Since the discussion come up we've talked about it a few times she said it was the biggest did she ever seen in her life and said it was very painful but it was a pleasurable pain something I'm never going to be able to give her. She said she gets off but you know how women are you really don't know. Although we've been together for quite some time it just seems like that I don't please her like she wants to be pleased. I know everything for I can but it sometimes it just seems like it's not enough I'm on the verge of breaking up with her for that reason I just can't handle the fact that the person I love has had a 13 inch cock and I'm barely average. All you people that has ripped me in half on here thinking that I'm joking or lying or whatever else couldn't be further from the truth.

Sorry, but I noticed after I put up my reply that you said the photo was on her old phone. So you went looking on her old phone to see it? This does sound like you are obsessing and being insecure. My advice is to forget the picture. Also let it all go. Or else, as others have said, do her a favor, and let her go so she can find someone who isn't going to obsess over some perceived fault, i.e., taking a big dick 7 years ago, as if she was supposed to predict you would come into her life years later and be upset.

Look, I am not trying to beat up on you, but given what you said, it sounds like you are the one who needs to come to peace with it. She can't do anything to undo something from 7 years ago. I am not hung, and have not seen any photos of my wife's ex bf from many years ago, and have no idea how hung he was, but I don't want to know because such knowledge won't do anyhthing positive for me now. If I were to stumble across some photos that showed him as porn star dimensions I don't know how I would react, so I am not presuming to pretend I have all the answers. However I know that we all have to adapt to things as they are. Unless she has told you that she considers you second-rate in bed, let it go. If you can't, then move on now, for her sake.

 

[AlteredEgo]

The only thing I would pause about is her keeping a 7 yeare old dick pic on her phone. Obviously she has a reason for that.

I have old dick pictures on my phone. I have lots of flirty and risque pictures of past lovers. Some no of them imported from my old SD card. Some were fairly recently sent. Some were sent to entice me back. I don't go back to exes. Doesn't mean I don't sometimes want to look. I might even want to rub one out while looking and remembering. So? I'm not trying to deal with those dudes in that way. The ones who are really my friends? The ones with whom I still socialize? I don't keep or use erotic photos of them. It's really not a big deal unless she's trying to go back. If she's like me, she knows the past is in the past for a reason.

You know, the second a dude is going through my phone he needs to go.

 

[Darren2326]

Sorry, but I noticed after I put up my reply that you said the photo was on her old phone. So you went looking on her old phone to see it? This does sound like you are obsessing and being insecure. My advice is to forget the picture. Also let it all go. Or else, as others have said, do her a favor, and let her go so she can find someone who isn't going to obsess over some perceived fault, i.e., taking a big dick 7 years ago, as if she was supposed to predict you would come into her life years later and be upset.

Look, I am not trying to beat up on you, but given what you said, it sounds like you are the one who needs to come to peace with it. She can't do anything to undo something from 7 years ago. I am not hung, and have not seen any photos of my wife's ex bf from many years ago, and have no idea how hung he was, but I don't want to know because such knowledge won't do anyhthing positive for me now. If I were to stumble across some photos that showed him as porn star dimensions I don't know how I would react, so I am not presuming to pretend I have all the answers. However I know that we all have to adapt to things as they are. Unless she has told you that she considers you second-rate in bed, let it go. If you can't, then move on now, for her sake.

she was selling the phone and told me to delete all the pics so she could get rid of it... said he must had took the pic because she said she didn't

 

[LadyNel]

In a physical way for sure! Mentally I can't do it

 

[AyaB]

Looks like you’ve gotten about 7 years worth of replies on this, so you’ve probably gotten your answer by now (and probably from life and not any of these comments), but here I go, gonna throw my hat in the ring too.

I’m a female, first of all, and fairly well experienced (although for the past 5+ years, been with the same guy). I’ve had the whole range from smallish to very large.

Of course, you register a difference from man to man (especially between the extremes and especially in the beginning of the sexual relationship) but it tends to fade away after you get used to a particular lover. In other words, it’s not going to be like the first night on the 500th night. And that’s where skill and passion (and all that the other important stuff) come into play and take precedence over size.

From my personal experience (and reinforced by science), there is NO permanent change to he vagina due to the types, sizes or numbers of penises that have been in it. Not after 1 year, not after 20 years. Other than the factors of 1) vaginal delivery of multiple children and 2) age-related changes (which happen to men too, btw), the vagina maintains its inherent size, shape, muscularity and “tightness”. It rebounds to this state time and again because it is highly elastic.

So, your main “threat” or competition is NOT your girlfriend’s (or wife’s) memories of her past lovers, it’s HER KIDS (how many she has and whether they were pushed or cut out). The more kids she has had vaginally, the more elasticity she will POTENTIALLY lose.

Note that I said POTENTIALLY. Even multiple vaginal deliveries will not NECESSARILY cause a substantial change to the vagina.

So, physically-speaking, the answer to your question is “YES, the vagina can bounce back from changes caused by past large penises because there IS NO CHANGES - not on a permanent basis, anyway”.

But I suppose there is the other question too: what about from a psychological perspective? Can your partner “get over” the memory of her past larger lovers and be satisfied with you? That depends on what kind of person she is and what she is looking for in a relationship. Is she immature? Is she ALL ABOUT extremes of sensation? Or does she value intimacy and mutual satisfaction and caring (in and out of the bedroom)? WHO is she? The answer to these questions will give the answer that you are REALLY seeking.

 

[xUhhOhh]

Looks like you’ve gotten about 7 years worth of replies on this, so you’ve probably gotten your answer by now (and probably from life and not any of these comments), but here I go, gonna throw my hat in the ring too.

I’m a female, first of all, and fairly well experienced (although for the past 5+ years, been with the same guy). I’ve had the whole range from smallish to very large.

Of course, you register a difference from man to man (especially between the extremes and especially in the beginning of the sexual relationship) but it tends to fade away after you get used to a particular lover. In other words, it’s not going to be like the first night on the 500th night. And that’s where skill and passion (and all that the other important stuff) come into play and take precedence over size.

From my personal experience (and reinforced by science), there is NO permanent change to he vagina due to the types, sizes or numbers of penises that have been in it. Not after 1 year, not after 20 years. Other than the factors of 1) vaginal delivery of multiple children and 2) age-related changes (which happen to men too, btw), the vagina maintains its inherent size, shape, muscularity and “tightness”. It rebounds to this state time and again because it is highly elastic.

So, your main “threat” or competition is NOT your girlfriend’s (or wife’s) memories of her past lovers, it’s HER KIDS (how many she has and whether they were pushed or cut out). The more kids she has had vaginally, the more elasticity she will POTENTIALLY lose.

Note that I said POTENTIALLY. Even multiple vaginal deliveries will not NECESSARILY cause a substantial change to the vagina.

So, physically-speaking, the answer to your question is “YES, the vagina can bounce back from changes caused by past large penises because there IS NO CHANGES - not on a permanent basis, anyway”.

But I suppose there is the other question too: what about from a psychological perspective? Can your partner “get over” the memory of her past larger lovers and be satisfied with you? That depends on what kind of person she is and what she is looking for in a relationship. Is she immature? Is she ALL ABOUT extremes of sensation? Or does she value intimacy and mutual satisfaction and caring (in and out of the bedroom)? WHO is she? The answer to these questions will give the answer that you are REALLY seeking.

I have been a lurker. In fact, almost 10 years. I never post or respond. Reading this, I had to. This is an excellent comment and ties in emotional as well as physical changes in people. Thank you for incorporating both.

 

[AverageHere]

You have a bigger dick doesn't mean you are good at bed. I heard many stories that they are awful and doesn't know how to use their own bigger dick.

 

[jimmyjohn2018]

Looks like you’ve gotten about 7 years worth of replies on this, so you’ve probably gotten your answer by now (and probably from life and not any of these comments), but here I go, gonna throw my hat in the ring too.

I’m a female, first of all, and fairly well experienced (although for the past 5+ years, been with the same guy). I’ve had the whole range from smallish to very large.

Of course, you register a difference from man to man (especially between the extremes and especially in the beginning of the sexual relationship) but it tends to fade away after you get used to a particular lover. In other words, it’s not going to be like the first night on the 500th night. And that’s where skill and passion (and all that the other important stuff) come into play and take precedence over size.

From my personal experience (and reinforced by science), there is NO permanent change to he vagina due to the types, sizes or numbers of penises that have been in it. Not after 1 year, not after 20 years. Other than the factors of 1) vaginal delivery of multiple children and 2) age-related changes (which happen to men too, btw), the vagina maintains its inherent size, shape, muscularity and “tightness”. It rebounds to this state time and again because it is highly elastic.

So, your main “threat” or competition is NOT your girlfriend’s (or wife’s) memories of her past lovers, it’s HER KIDS (how many she has and whether they were pushed or cut out). The more kids she has had vaginally, the more elasticity she will POTENTIALLY lose.

Note that I said POTENTIALLY. Even multiple vaginal deliveries will not NECESSARILY cause a substantial change to the vagina.

So, physically-speaking, the answer to your question is “YES, the vagina can bounce back from changes caused by past large penises because there IS NO CHANGES - not on a permanent basis, anyway”.

But I suppose there is the other question too: what about from a psychological perspective? Can your partner “get over” the memory of her past larger lovers and be satisfied with you? That depends on what kind of person she is and what she is looking for in a relationship. Is she immature? Is she ALL ABOUT extremes of sensation? Or does she value intimacy and mutual satisfaction and caring (in and out of the bedroom)? WHO is she? The answer to these questions will give the answer that you are REALLY seeking.

Great answer. After our first kid, all was the same and well, I got the gasp when entering still. After the second, I won't say she is loose, but it is definitely different. No more gasp when entering, but overall pleasurable, just different. Still totally worth it,. the two kids are awesome.

 

[MrMartini]

When I was in my 20s and had been married for a couple of years, I started fucking the female half of a couple we got to be friends with on a fairly routine basis. She was this hot little blond with little tits and a spectacularly tight pussy. At the time I had what would be described as a twink body with a nice dick (about 8X6 boned). Her husband was a small and couldn't get her to orgasm without oral or hand manipulation (or so she told me. I definitely know he was a small because I saw him naked sometimes when we all traveled together.) After a ride or two on my horsey she didn't have any trouble taking me all the way in balls deep. And, she'd have gut wrenching deep vaginal orgasms. The only observation she ever made was that her husband told her there were times she didn't feel as tight as usual but said he had good oral skills. But one thing was for sure, that chick loved big cock. And she left me with a fetish for tiny tits.

 

[smalldickdan]

I would say yes and no
I’m by far the smallest my wife’s had at 4x 3.5
It’s fine most of the time but once she’s really arroused her pussy seems to relax to accommodate what it was used to, then my cock is pretty much obsolete

 

[giantguy23]

No you lost them forever... Lol

 

[smalldickdan]

No you lost them forever... Lol

Pretty much once they know they can enjoy it they don’t stop thinking about it

 

[giantguy23]

Pretty much once they know they can enjoy it they don’t stop thinking about it

But hey it's not all about cock you have fingers,tongue Ect to work the magic

 

[smalldickdan]

But hey it's not all about cock you have fingers,tongue Ect to work the magic

Oh yeah we got toys !!!! I ain’t insecure or jello