Can women adjust to a smaller penis after a big one?

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If a guy is smaller than a womans previous partners can we bridge the gap? Is it a lot to do with touch and passion etc? and is it a huge difference to have sex with a bigger penis?(maybe thats for the women to answer).
Bridge the gap? From personal experience, I, nor the average sized guy, could tell a difference even if he followed the hung guy a few hours later...

It really is a mental thing with me but i cant get round it. Any advice good or bad will be appreciated.
get over it?
 

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yeah, this whole thing of women being ruined by huge men is all just a male fantasy.

it's a muscle ffs.

saying we'll never feel a normal cock again is like saying that once a dancer has done the splits they'll never close their legs again.

silliness.
 

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i have never dumped a guy for having a small dick.
i have however dumped a guy for being so fucking obsessively angsty about his dick size, despite my reassurances, that it sapped all the fun out of sex.

boys, can you ever be happy with a girl who doesn't have the tightest vag you've ever fucked?

I can and have, its no big deal, just makes me last longer in the saddle....Had a gal who was divorced and she must have been married to a horse, she was very loose to me, but I worked my ass off, and she told me at the end of our love session, I thought my husband could go for a long time, and she was worn out and happy, well I didn't tell her it was because she was so loose to me that I couldn't get enough friction to get me off, so I lasted a long time....so there is a positive....but that was my one and only experience with a large vag....
 

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...she must have been married to a horse, she was very loose to me...
stop it! stop perpetuating this stupidarse myth!

having a looser vag does NOT mean some super horsehung stud has ruined her forever.

some women naturally have looser vag.
some women damage the muscle during childbirth.
some women just have poor muscle tone and need to learn about kegals before they end up incontinent.

yes, some porn girls do end up with damaged muscles through sex, but that ain't a normal sex life.
 
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I'm really worried... I lifted a 25kg bag of dog food earlier, I think it's ruined me for life, will I ever be able to lift my cup of tea with the same satisfaction again?!

Why, yes, yes I can... I'm doing it right now :biggrin1:

You don't get the satisfaction from lifting the dog food, you get it from being able to feed your lovely dog, and see how happy it makes him.

You don't get the satisfaction from lifting the cup of tea, you get it from the warm, comforting, stimulating tea within the cup!

One does not ruin the other, and no matter how used you are to lifting one, your muscles are perfectly able to perform both tasks :rolleyes:
 
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stop it! stop perpetuating this stupidarse myth!

having a looser vag does NOT mean some super horsehung stud has ruined her forever.

some women naturally have looser vag.
some women damage the muscle during childbirth.
some women just have poor muscle tone and need to learn about kegals before they end up incontinent.

yes, some porn girls do end up with damaged muscles through sex, but that ain't a normal sex life.

I experienced women with looser than what I was used too and I never assumed they had been "blown" out. Maybe the result of taking anatomy AP classes but it just never occurred to me to think some huge cock or whatever made them loose. Who perpetuates this fucking myth? It seems like an issue of ignorance run rampart.
 
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I experienced women with looser than what I was used too and I never assumed they had been "blown" out. Maybe the result of taking anatomy AP classes but it just never occurred to me to think some huge cock or whatever made them loose. Who perpetuates this fucking myth? It seems like an issue of ignorance run rampart.

Larger men with ego problems, who like to believe they can ruin a woman and forever be the best they've had as a result.

Smaller/average men who can't accept things for what they are and have to believe they'll never be any good because they're not the biggest.

Men of any size who just like to think uneducated shitty things about women - She's a whore, she's ruined. She's had kids, she's ruined.

You know... those men no self-respecting woman would want to sleep with anyway!
 

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Larger men with ego problems, who like to believe they can ruin a woman and forever be the best they've had as a result.

Smaller/average men who can't accept things for what they are and have to believe they'll never be any good because they're not the biggest.

Men of any size who just like to think uneducated shitty things about women - She's a whore, she's ruined. She's had kids, she's ruined.

You know... those men no self-respecting woman would want to sleep with anyway!


I sometimes, and this was mostly in the past, used to worry I was the best for my wife and because of past experiences with shitty gfs and ego crushing comments I thought for just a micro second that it was because of the angle of ma dangle if ya catch ma drift. I knew there were other factors but I was pretty focused on the insignificant part and needed a lil help pulling my head outta my ass. Once that was out of the way I realized that the other things I had been concerned about like technique, emotion, love were much more important than cock size, which I have since learned I'm doing just fine. Its perpetuated by bullies and ignorant ass hats that think that because some woman has a better time with them that it rests solely on the cock size, nit that the couple were incompatible or that the guy was inexperienced like myself at the time. When I look at it like that, ignorance seems the cause, and ignorance is dangerous as fuck from what I've seen in my short time here on this rock.
 

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All great stuff from the posters here. My summary

1) seek some professional help

2) focus on the woman and not the ex boy friends

3) get your eyes off your dick and onto the woman. You will be happier, she will be happier. You might have a chance at a good relationship.

Otherwise you are pretty much up the creek.
 
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Sex is DIFFERENT with a large cock, but not better! Just different.
I've had sex with men who were 5, 7, 8, 9 inches... and always go back to my 5 inch... the difference? I LOVE HIM.. and he knows what to do to rock my world...Oh, and yes, I can feel still feel him. I laughingly say, "my rubber band just snaps back in place"

Then what brings you to a large penis website?
 

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Straight to the point! I like it. I think i do focus way to much on her past men and i need to sort it. Thanks for everyones help made me feel a bit better, great site and great folk.
All great stuff from the posters here. My summary

1) seek some professional help

2) focus on the woman and not the ex boy friends

3) get your eyes off your dick and onto the woman. You will be happier, she will be happier. You might have a chance at a good relationship.

Otherwise you are pretty much up the creek.
 

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Then what brings you to a large penis website?
A penis does not have to be a specific size to photograph well, or to perform well. However for some reason more people like to browse collections labeled 'large'. I think it's like at the pizza places where there is no 'small', just medium, large and jumbo.

Personally I am here for the supporting :tongue: