Can women adjust to a smaller penis after a big one?

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who exactly do you think you are to be questioning any other members' membership of this site?

justify that for us please.

Everytime I see a woman here saying "size doesn't matter" I wonder why she is a member. I've always wondered and the question just popped out. Sorry.

But I guess that's a seperate thread.
 

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I wonder how much of a deal breaker it is? and could you make up with oral etc. Would a woman dump a man with a big penis for someone smaller? it does confuse me the world of sex!
If I ever traded a guy, the penises would not be the reason! Do you ever say this stuff out loud to yourself so you can hear it? It sounds crazy to me.

As a woman who has had huge and small cocks, sometimes within 24 hours of each other, I can tell you that for me (I would never speak for other women) it is not difficult to go back and forth.

I once fucked the smallest-hung guy I have been with the day before, and then the day after the biggest-hung guy. The guy with the smaller cock had less than half the length, and only about 80% of the girth of the guy with the larger. But, he was awesome! If it were possible, I'd fuck him again tomorrow. He did not "make up" for his size with outstanding oral skills; those were mediocre at best due to a crooked tooth that always managed to catch my clit the wrong way. He was just a spontaneous, adventurous, kinky lay. Hot. The guy with the bigger dick was MUCH better at eating pussy, was better looking, and was just as good to fuck as the other one. But it was different. It was outstanding, but for different reasons. He too was curious and exploratory, spontaneous (though to a lesser degree) and could sometimes be kinky, but he was also really, really familiar. He was an ex I'd dated for six years. He knows me. Only my husband has ever fucked me better than he did after all that time together, and my husband and I have been together five years.

There are many things that contribute to a woman's opinion of a man's sexual performance. Penis size is but one of them.
 

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Everytime I see a woman here saying "size doesn't matter" I wonder why she is a member. I've always wondered and the question just popped out. Sorry.

But I guess that's a seperate thread.
ok, i'll bite.
it showed up on google, i thought it had to be a joke, i looked, i loved the ladies here, i stayed.
and i prefer average length. long just hurts.
 

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Thats such a silly question to ask her. What brings you to a large penis website? To see other guys dicks?

I believe the poster was referring to the questions in the OP...:rolleyes:

to be fair being on a website dedicated to something, implies you are in some way interested in that topic, either because you like it or have it in this case...
 

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i have never dumped a guy for having a small dick.
i have however dumped a guy for being so fucking obsessively angsty about his dick size, despite my reassurances, that it sapped all the fun out of sex.

boys, can you ever be happy with a girl who doesn't have the tightest vag you've ever fucked?

do you ever get tired of hearing how you don't look fat in that dress?
you owe us!
 

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do you ever get tired of hearing how you don't look fat in that dress?
you owe us!
i don't want or need to hear that. i know how i look in this dress. an appreciative smile will do nicely. i'd be insulted that you thought i needed to hear it, that you thought i was that insecure, that you thought my self esteem stemmed from my dress size.
what kind of thickness doyou like
just curiuos
not coke can thick. not wrist thick. i'd rather it wasn't thin but within the upper range of average.
 

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My wife told me she had a boyfriend who was huge, didn't know his exact size but she is with me now, has been for 11 years and I am not huge. I can't speak for woman but as so many have said, sex is much more than the size of your penis. I am into busty women, I have an ex how was huge, at least a F cup, my wife is a D cup and I am totally content with her size. If it was all about size, I would still be with my ex, but I am not, real people don't reduce you to a body part, they judge you by the whole package. Peace
 

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my own personal experience is I think women adjust over time but don't forget. I had a relationship with an engaged gal, we met in a bar, every other wkend we met up. we kept doing this for sev'l mos. it was all about the sex. initially, she told me she needed a big cock. I said the fact you are with me tells me your fiance does not have a big cock and I do. correct. what are you going to to do when you are married to him. cheat??? not with me,you won't. we stopped seeing each other. she felt guilty, I felt guilty. a few months would go by and she would just show up. "pls fuck me, fuck me, fuck me." a few times I was involved with another female. man would she get mad. I had to straighten her out and send her on her way. other times, we fucked, fucked a lot. eventually, she married her guy, moved away, just got divorced after 30 yrs of marriage. not sure what that is about.

had another gf who broke up with me so she could date my friend. she lasted 2 wks with my buddy. I guess she ridiculed his size and compared his size to mine. he was quite upset that she dumped him as he considered himself a real stud. I found this out from her. she claimed that I had ruined her for life, that she automatically compared all men to me. I guess after having ho hum sex with my buddy a few times, she started laughing at him the next time they went to have sex. she said something, he slapped her, she put her clothes on & left and that was that. I heard this from her over a cocktail, punctuated with the occassional, "you big dicked bastard" and a poke in the ribs. I even tried to date & fuck her again, but she resisted. a couple days later, I ran into him, upset and almost crying over their break up. I told him, no sympathy from me dude, you stole my girl. he told me she ridiculed him, and he demanded to know what I had in my pants. I told him I was bigger than average. he demanded that I whip it out and show him. (which I didn't do)I guess he couldn't believe he wasn't a stud or somebody could be bigger.

after about 4 yrs of me & the SO being together, SO forgot that not all men are hung and their mates sexually satisfied. a gf came to her very upset that her bf and her weren't getting along, part of the problem was she was not satisfied. the gal wondered what our secret is. they talked for awhile. the gal wanted to know if my SO had a desire to cheat. SO told her no. the gal said don't you secretly want to find the BIG one. at that point, SO said no, she had found and marred the BIG one. when I got home, I got a big kiss, a crotch grab, and an apology for taking me for granted. then I got the whole story.

the bottom line is I think there are more ways to make a woman happy than by just having a big dick, they are complex cratures.
 

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I think men worrying about what women think regarding penis size is just a guise to cover up the biological need to want to be bigger. Yes, to some degree we care what woman think..about how it feels, looks, have you had bigger, smaller, etc..but in the end we just want to be bigger, and we really aren't sure why. If one woman in the history of women said at one time on record that a bigger penis felt better, we would have our justification. Even if that one woman was actually a man in drag and every other woman on the planet said it didn't matter.

So yes, it helps to hear all the women on the big cock site say, "i've fucked 2 inches and it was glorious!", in the end it probably won't make all that much of a difference. I find it best to just accept the fact that we'd all like to be bigger no matter how big we are and try and embrace the complexity and diversity of our species, as hard as that may be to do. IF you have propensity to obsess and it really begins to affect your relationships and self worth, stay off this site and pick up a hobby.
 

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my own personal experience is I think women adjust over time but don't forget. I had a relationship with an engaged gal, we met in a bar, every other wkend we met up. we kept doing this for sev'l mos. it was all about the sex. initially, she told me she needed a big cock. I said the fact you are with me tells me your fiance does not have a big cock and I do. correct. what are you going to to do when you are married to him. cheat??? not with me,you won't. we stopped seeing each other. she felt guilty, I felt guilty. a few months would go by and she would just show up. "pls fuck me, fuck me, fuck me." a few times I was involved with another female. man would she get mad. I had to straighten her out and send her on her way. other times, we fucked, fucked a lot. eventually, she married her guy, moved away, just got divorced after 30 yrs of marriage. not sure what that is about.

had another gf who broke up with me so she could date my friend. she lasted 2 wks with my buddy. I guess she ridiculed his size and compared his size to mine. he was quite upset that she dumped him as he considered himself a real stud. I found this out from her. she claimed that I had ruined her for life, that she automatically compared all men to me. I guess after having ho hum sex with my buddy a few times, she started laughing at him the next time they went to have sex. she said something, he slapped her, she put her clothes on & left and that was that. I heard this from her over a cocktail, punctuated with the occassional, "you big dicked bastard" and a poke in the ribs. I even tried to date & fuck her again, but she resisted. a couple days later, I ran into him, upset and almost crying over their break up. I told him, no sympathy from me dude, you stole my girl. he told me she ridiculed him, and he demanded to know what I had in my pants. I told him I was bigger than average. he demanded that I whip it out and show him. (which I didn't do)I guess he couldn't believe he wasn't a stud or somebody could be bigger.

after about 4 yrs of me & the SO being together, SO forgot that not all men are hung and their mates sexually satisfied. a gf came to her very upset that her bf and her weren't getting along, part of the problem was she was not satisfied. the gal wondered what our secret is. they talked for awhile. the gal wanted to know if my SO had a desire to cheat. SO told her no. the gal said don't you secretly want to find the BIG one. at that point, SO said no, she had found and marred the BIG one. when I got home, I got a big kiss, a crotch grab, and an apology for taking me for granted. then I got the whole story.

the bottom line is I think there are more ways to make a woman happy than by just having a big dick, they are complex cratures.
lol your "bottom line" is the exact opposite of the other three paragraphs