can you be turned gay

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  1. younghotfireman24

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    my friend has told me about how he wasnt gay untill some gay guys convinced him to be by saying how fun it is
    i think he was always gay
    but it made me think can you turn a straight guy gay or are you born gay

    im not homophobic by the way
     
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    Born that way! Period.:biggrin1:
     
  3. Principessa

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    You cannot be turned gay. :rolleyes::tongue:
    Your friend was always gay but was probably repressing his feelings.
     
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    Yeah i agree. Some people supress it, some explore it. I totally love and respect both.
     
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    It's a fundamental part of your nature. You can't be "turned". But you can be helped out of the closet.
     
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    yer thats what i thought but he was adamant he wasnt gay he just like sex with guys better
     
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    Some people are just like that buddy. I used to have this mate and the way he was i know hed fuck a guy just cos he would and could.

    Nice pics btw.

     
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    On december 12th 1978, I decided to become a practicing homosexual.........................................Now I'm really good at it.
     
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    your born with it, sometimes you don't realise, but it happens. I also think it has somewhat to do with your child hood, not in the homophobic "he must've been molested!!! or HIS FATHER DOESNT LOVE HIM!!" way, i think it's random.
     
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    Of course you can. Careful not to sit next to any gays or you might catch it :wink:
     
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    Actually, if you know any gay people, and they have to be card-carrying members, they can get you into the secret gay stores. They sell this soap, called "StraightAway". It you wash with it twice daily, for 3 days, you'll be stunned at your sudden taste for better clothes, stylish haircuts, and flair for interiour design. :rolleyes:

    With for the exception of the possibility of "situational homosexuality" (prison stays, extended submarine assignments, etc.), it's an extraordinary event for a completely straight man to "go gay", and it's definitely not just because "it seems so fun." As a friend of mine told me, "Look, you know how open-minded I am, and you know how many gay friends I have, but of the hundreds of times that I've been drunk off my ass around them, my dick's never ended up in any of their mouths."
     
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    Practice makes perfect ...

     
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    yes you are!
     
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    Please! Human sexualtiy is not that black and white. Human beings are too complex to just be born one way and stay that way forever. We are in a constant state of flux always learning, and adapting. You can evolve into a different sexual preference at any stage of your life. I read that there are 3 things that can predispose a straight man for homosexuality: A determiantion not to be controlled by women, a sexual competition with other men, and a preoccuption with masculinity. Also, it has been proven that straight porn conditions men for bisexuality because you learn to be sexually aroused when looking at both a man and a woman. It's like Pavlov's dog, operant conditioning. The creators of porn know this. Usually the penis is given center stage over the woman. Homosexality may have been natures was of providing population controls and emotional bonding between humans.
     
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    And the moral of that story is dont belive everyting you read oversized.

    I have to disagree.
     
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    Being "turned" gay is like saying you can be turned straight. :tongue:

    Oh wait, some groups claim to be able to do that. :rolleyes:
     
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    LMAO, That group doesn't count, right?
     
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    Hmmm . . . thought I was straight growing up, but discovered sex with men more sexually satisfying. Why? No reason in particular. It is what it is.

    One of my favorite bits of graffiti found on mens room toilet stall at BYU circa 1968:

    "My mother made me a homosexual!"
    Under which someone else had written,
    "If I by her the yarn will she make me one too?"

    Ahh, BYU, "Where the girls are girls and the boyze are too!"
     
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    Turned?

    No, I was dragged kicking and screaming against my will to my homosexuality.

    One of my favorite bits of graffiti found on a mens room toilet stall door while sitting on the can Cornell circa 1989:

    "Beware of gay midget limbo dancers"
     
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    Personally, i don't think you can be "turned" gay. I always knew i was gay, but one of my best friends started out with women and found out about men later and loves both.

    I think if you're gay or bi, it is always in you. Let me give you an example... I would NEVER eat pussy, the thought makes my weiner soft. If you're a dude who is totally turned off by the thought of doing anything with a guy, the chances are you're 100% straight and always will be.

    If the thought of doing anything sexual with another man turns you on at all, then it's possible you have a like gay or bi in you.

    Either way, you gotta be who you are and explore your feelings and fantacies.
     
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