Can you fuck a man you don't respect?

[B_crackoff]

Golly, you do say a lot of nonsensical things, don't you? You must be really young. You seem to think you know a lot about a lot of things, but my experiences contradict your opinions.

Don't everybody's. Nonsensical? Illuminate me! I keep seeing this "You must be really young thing" on here used by disagreeing ladies. Hehe.

What the hell are you talking about "rebound" for? This happened years before I even met TheBoyfriend. These two things have nothing to do with each other.

Try reading the post properly. If you hadn't been through that experience, you probably wouldn't be with your boyfriend now - I never said you were, but he was. Revenge - dish - best - served - cold.

So you know, I never have, & never would knock you or your boyfriend, or your relationship. I think you're a mite sensitive on this (& it's always good to defend your love!), but I was making generalisations, not personal observations.

Have a lovely week.

 

[petite]

Try reading the post properly. If you hadn't been through that experience, you probably wouldn't be with your boyfriend now - I never said you were, but he was. Revenge - dish - best - served - cold.

So you know, I never have, & never would knock you or your boyfriend, or your relationship. I think you're a mite sensitive on this (& it's always good to defend your love!), but I was making generalisations, not personal observations.

Have a lovely week.

That was quite sweet. I'm sorry if I misunderstood what you meant.

I suppose I learned that I should never trust a man with such a bad past, even if he seems to be more recently reformed, and that I should avoid such men in the future. Given the value of that lesson, I suppose I should be glad that I'm a fast learner and never made the same mistake again.

I definitely paid a lot of attention to the fact that TheBoyfriend didn't take advantage of how much female admiration he received and that he obviously was looking for more from a relationship when he pursued me, or else he wouldn't have continued pursuing me when there were so many other willing women.

You're absolutely right, I'll jump to his defense. I adore him.

 

[Fleur]

I cannot have sex with a man I don't respect, but I have also lost respect for men that I have slept with and would never sleep with again. C'est la vie...

I think when it comes to sex and also intimacy we all just want to be respected, cared about and loved. It's simple in that regard.

 

[invisibleman]

Since other men have answered, I will too.

I can't fuck a woman if I respect her. If I think she's really great and wonderful, it's just not going to happen.

I can only fuck women who I feel apathetic towards.

Sarcasm much?

Who says I'm being sarcastic. That's a serious response.

Oh you poor man.

I give a serious reply to a question and the first thing you do is mock my answer. What's wrong with you?

I'm not mocking you! I'm serious. Your answer made me feel bad for you.

Whatever. I don't have time for this stupid e-bullying.

That's a first. I have never ever been called an "e-bully" before!

I'm so confused.

Ah don't worry about it.

I checked his other postings, and he doesn't appear to be a troll. He does have some self-esteem issues, so he probably was stating his honest feelings/opinion.

Petite and Not_Punographic.

I think that he may have meant to write:

"I can only fuck women who I feel empathetic (empathy) for."

He just used the wrong word. That is all.

 

[537454]

no i'm sorry if i can't respect someone man or woman i'm just not into it and to tell the truth i've never bet someone i've found sexy that i didn't respect i got to have it

 

[D_Kaye Throttlebottom]

Petite and Not_Punographic.

I think that he may have meant to write:

"I can only fuck women who I feel empathetic (empathy) for."

He just used the wrong word. That is all.

quit stirring the pot.

 

[nicenycdick]

I hope I am not out of line in answering this as it pertains to men with women:

The simple answer is: yes. I was in a relationship in Los Angeles many, many years again with a woman I truly loved. She was a woman who I had loved from the moment..the moment...I met her. Our relationship had been stormy...on again, off again. After leaving and living in NY for a year, I met her at a party in California...and suddenly we were engaged. I was a little wary because of our history, and, as it turned out, I had reason to be. We started a nine month long-distance courtship. A month before we were to be married, when I was back in LA to confirm some wedding plans, she tearfully told me that she had slept with another man while I was in NY. I was furious, of course, and told her that the wedding was off. She cried her apologies, and suddenly became extremely affectionate and sexually aggressive. Yes, I slept with her...despite my loss of respect. Simply because I loved her no less.

 

[B_spiker067]

This might already have been said but if so I simply add to the vote column of -

If he KNOWS you have zero respect for him and still wants it, then you shouldn't fuck him.

 

[invisibleman]

If he KNOWS you have zero respect for him and still wants it, then you shouldn't fuck him.

I agree.

 

[invisibleman]

I hope I am not out of line in answering this as it pertains to men with women:

The simple answer is: yes. I was in a relationship in Los Angeles many, many years again with a woman I truly loved. She was a woman who I had loved from the moment..the moment...I met her. Our relationship had been stormy...on again, off again. After leaving and living in NY for a year, I met her at a party in California...and suddenly we were engaged. I was a little wary because of our history, and, as it turned out, I had reason to be. We started a nine month long-distance courtship. A month before we were to be married, when I was back in LA to confirm some wedding plans, she tearfully told me that she had slept with another man while I was in NY. I was furious, of course, and told her that the wedding was off.

DEALBREAKER THERE.

She cried her apologies, and suddenly became extremely affectionate and sexually aggressive. Yes, I slept with her...despite my loss of respect. Simply because I loved her no less.

Damn, I feel for you.

 

[invisibleman]

quit stirring...

Hey, isn't this a support group? We are here for support. It is all good. No malice here.

 

[D_Kaye Throttlebottom]

Hey, isn't this a support group? We are here for support. It is all good. No malice here.

I don't think he used the wrong word -- he has low self-esteem and doesn't think he cannot connect to someone great... and the disagreement dragged on long enough and appeared to be over...this is what I'm saying.

Now. about this Burger King parking lot stuff.

 

[petite]

I hope I am not out of line in answering this as it pertains to men with women:

The simple answer is: yes. I was in a relationship in Los Angeles many, many years again with a woman I truly loved. She was a woman who I had loved from the moment..the moment...I met her. Our relationship had been stormy...on again, off again. After leaving and living in NY for a year, I met her at a party in California...and suddenly we were engaged. I was a little wary because of our history, and, as it turned out, I had reason to be. We started a nine month long-distance courtship. A month before we were to be married, when I was back in LA to confirm some wedding plans, she tearfully told me that she had slept with another man while I was in NY. I was furious, of course, and told her that the wedding was off. She cried her apologies, and suddenly became extremely affectionate and sexually aggressive. Yes, I slept with her...despite my loss of respect. Simply because I loved her no less.

I think that's a different situation, being overwhelmed with emotion at the moment, getting hit with grief, feeling the loneliness for someone while they're still right in front of you, someone you love right now and who you know will be gone from your life. I understand the impulse and can see myself doing the same. It's a little different I think, than what the OP meant, because when it happens like that it's almost a phase of the breakup itself, right in the middle of it, before you can even process those emotions.

What a heartbreak! I'm so sorry.

 

[invisibleman]

Now. about this Burger King parking lot stuff.

I can't fuck a man that doesn't respect the WHOPPER.


:wink: Enough said.

 

[helgaleena]

I can't fuck a man that doesn't respect the WHOPPER.


:wink: Enough said.

I resemble this remark :tongue:

And I am the Whopper!

 

[nicenycdick]

I think that's a different situation, being overwhelmed with emotion at the moment, getting hit with grief, feeling the loneliness for someone while they're still right in front of you, someone you love right now and who you know will be gone from your life. I understand the impulse and can see myself doing the same. It's a little different I think, than what the OP meant, because when it happens like that it's almost a phase of the breakup itself, right in the middle of it, before you can even process those emotions.

What a heartbreak! I'm so sorry.

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Well...I would agree with you, I guess, if it wasn't for the fact that we just celebrated our 29th Wedding Anniversary.

 

[petite]

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Well...I would agree with you, I guess, if it wasn't for the fact that we just celebrated our 29th Wedding Anniversary.

Are you serious? So you didn't break up? Wow!

Did you forgive her get married a month later?

 

[invisibleman]

And I am the Whopper!

 

[D_Kaye Throttlebottom]

I can't fuck a man that doesn't respect the WHOPPER.


:wink: Enough said.

I can't take you that seriously with you holding your junk like that.

 

[invisibleman]

I can't take you that seriously with you holding your junk like that.

Color me Fred Sanford. I hold my junk in high esteem. But it doesn't sell...but it is interesting to look at.