Hi! First and foremost, I apologize for my bad english! I would like to ask the community on this site, because I'm not afraid to speak frankly here. There is a girl, who was my girlfriend in high-school for a short period (4months). We broke up, but still we are good friends, still hanging with the same group friends. She (and me also) has(have) a very long and stable relationship, but she is very discontended with her boyfriend. The works a lot, sometimes takes two shifts, and works as a dj in the weekends. So you can imagine whats her problem... Yes, true the use their bed only for sleeping. Otherwise, they have a great relationship, they are engaged now for 5 months Yesterday evening after was took home my girlfriend from the guy's Halloween party (a friend of her, also) she called me and asked me to take home her too, because she didn't wanted to stay at the party anymore. While I was driving, she told me, that they didn't had sex since August, and she loves the guy, but she want's to have some dirty, sweaty fuck. The she asked me, whether i remember those old days, when we were together... and asked me to be her fuck buddy (im not sure about the translation is correct, anyways, she wants just sex, not emotions) I was really shocked. Not just because the guy is good old friend of mine, but I consider fidelity very important, so i never wanted to cheat my girlfriend. She was disappointed, to see my refusal, and then she told, when she left the car, ''if this is the case, i'll seek the oppurtinity by myself''. I fear, that this means, that she will cheat the guy with some stranger. My problem is, that i cant do her, i couldn't tell the guy what's the situation, because he is a little... sensitive in this matter. And i think its just would get even worse if she picks one other guy. Could you give any advice to me?