I would say "no" in the poll. I would want nothing more than to be myself in front of my family. Assuming, of course, that I wouldn't be dejected by them. I have homophobes on both sides of my immediate family... And I consider myself almost fully dependent on them. I will come out to none of my family until I am completely independent and when I can stand on my own two feet. But as it is, I am still 19 years old and struggling to pay for college... And I am not ready to come out to them.
On my mom's side of the family, I have an extremely old-fashioned stepfather who is very supremist... He is homophobic as well as racist and sexist, on top of being an alcoholic. Don't get me wrong, he's a very nice guy, but you have to be on his good side to experience that. But when he's drunk, his every thought comes out and that's when you realize that he filters a lot of what he says. When I want him to know about me, I don't want to be living in that household.
On my dad's side of the family, homophobia is pretty extensive. My father himself is very conservative and very religious. He is under the belief that homosexuality is a choice and it can be "fixed" with therapy and counseling. Moreover, his parents (my grandparents) are helping me to pay for my college tuition, and they are worse than he is. My grandfather has a history of completely dejecting homosexuals from his life. Granted, none of them were his family, and I would hate for anyone to think that I'm using them solely for their money... But I would think it to be silly, stupid, and ignorant of them to stop aiding me simply because I happen to like other guys. I'd rather no one on this side of the family knew about me quite yet.
I do believe, however, that my mom would fully support me being gay and being who I am. Some of my friends would, too... the female ones, anyhow. I am unsure of how my male friends would take it. I've hung out with them while they made fun of one guy who has recently come out to very few people about being gay although denied it through high school (although it was pretty obvious, to be fair - he fits the stereotype pretty well with his manners, fashion, and hobbies). He came out to a few friends who fully support him, as well as his family who do not support him as much. Apparently, his brother is very harsh toward him being gay... Which I think is so sad.
I think coming out of the closet is a lot more extensive than it sounds. I read another topic on here that had some very good points and tips for coming out, and it sounds so true to how I'm living. So for myself and learning from others' experiences, I've decided not to come out to them until I've settled into my own life. My friends will have to know sooner than later... I'm just not sure how to tell them.