Im just thinking, if my girl has been with me (sizes below) and previously she had been with say, an 8 and a half by 5 and a half, is that a noticeable difference? I think the numbers game is a huge hangup. Its crazy as any one could have been with a 7.3 and a 7.6 and they hardly gonna be able to judge one bigger than the other. So it really is the sex and methods that are memorable, rather than the size as so many of up are hung up on! Plus if you put 10 years between 2 lovers and that previous lovers package is not gonna be so clear to visualise. Hard to compare.