Can you pinpoint the moment you fell in love with someone?

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I can pinpoint the precise moment - 50 years ago - when I realized I was in love with the person I was speaking with, looking at. It wasn't love at first sight although we had only known one another three or four weeks.

To this day, I can pinpoint exactly where we were standing, why we were there, the topic, what sparked my realization.

It was not to be, later I would go on to love deeply; that person 50 years ago is deceased, but I never stopped loving, in a manner, in my mind. I never regret loving anyone I love. I'm sure of my judgment; when I love them it's because they are amazing.
 
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I don't know love can be felt instantly(imo), but I know it happens faster for some than for others. Some people wear their heart on their shoulder/sleeves and fall quickly which can usually end in heartache. Some people you have to work on for awhile giving them attention and affection and it builds and builds. Me personally I fall quickly and to me that's a downfall to fall so fast. So I try my best not to fall so fast and to allow myself to get to know that person before falling for them. However, I did fall fast for my bf. I felt a strong connection toward him and I would say after dating and sleeping over his place a few times I fell in love with him. I would say in total maybe a month or two before I knew it fully.
 

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When my boyfriend was still my fuck buddy and I had a gall bladder attack at his apartment. Not only did he take care of me at his place but he took me to the hospital and stayed with me in the ER until the next morning when i went on for surgery. And the best part was he was waiting for me after I left surgery! I knew then that I loved him. Later I found out it was the same for him, he knew seeing me that sick he loved me!
 

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many many yrs ago, I saw this girl walking into the parking lot of a fast food joint we used to hang out in. I asked my buddy who she was. he knew her & told me her name. a few minutes later, she came out of the restaurant, he called her and her friend over and we went riding around for about an hour. I was in love. turned out she was 4 yrs younger than me and very much a minor but we hung out for a few months together. she liked me, probably not as much as I liked her. the rest is a long story, but we never hooked up. we are still friends today.