Can't Cum From A Blow Job

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I've had several times I've met guys and I tell them upfront I'm not into anal, just oral. After JO and sucking and I've cum and then tried to get them off, I do like it when a guy cums in my mouth and want it to happen, they'll say I can't cum from a blow job. I'll try to jack them off but that doesn't work either. Some hint at anal to get off, and others are just done. I've gotten the desired results out of plenty of guys I've always been curious about what's going on with the ones who "can't cum"? Any thoughts?
 
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I think it's a mental thing. So much of our sexual response comes from the brain. If I'm nervouse, it's hard for me to get erect, ket alone cum sometimes.

Early in my relationship with my girlfriend, when we started getting sexual, I had difficulty climaxing. She gave great blowjobs, but I was so nervous.

After acwhile, when I was more comfortable and relaxed, she can sometimes have me cum in no time! She sometimes would want to give me a quick climax in the morning from sucking and stroking me when we showered together before work and prided herself in her 0 to 60 times!

I am nervous with my bi hookups. I prefer to have guys who are just wanting to be serviced with ne reciprocity so I don't have to worry about performing.

I also found out a couple guys in my past who had a hard time climaxing, turned out they were on antidepressants, whixh can greatly affect one's ability to climax.
 

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I think it's a mental thing. So much of our sexual response comes from the brain. If I'm nervouse, it's hard for me to get erect, ket alone cum sometimes.

Early in my relationship with my girlfriend, when we started getting sexual, I had difficulty climaxing. She gave great blowjobs, but I was so nervous.

After acwhile, when I was more comfortable and relaxed, she can sometimes have me cum in no time! She sometimes would want to give me a quick climax in the morning from sucking and stroking me when we showered together before work and prided herself in her 0 to 60 times!

I am nervous with my bi hookups. I prefer to have guys who are just wanting to be serviced with ne reciprocity so I don't have to worry about performing.

I also found out a couple guys in my past who had a hard time climaxing, turned out they were on antidepressants, whixh can greatly affect one's ability to climax.
 

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@rmhetz that's about me. It's very hard for me to come when a guy sucks me or jerks me off. I also do not enjoy the process much.

What I usually ask guys if they want to help me to come is to lick my balls, while I'm jerking off myself.
 
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My problem is I will shoot so fast getting a blow job. Something about the feel and my sensitive area on my cock head and just underneath the slit drives me wild.
Try watching videos of guys sucking cock and how they pay attention to the areas that are loaded with nerve endings.
This is a buddy sucking my cock. Right where it gets me precumming and blowing cum.
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I'm one of those guys who can't cum from a blow job. Actually it's happened twice in my life...I'm healthy..not on any meds....a BJ just doesn't get me off. My first wife was determined to make it happen and she did....once...but it took forever. The second time was about 10 years ago....had a massage and like always, I got hard...the masseuse surprised me with a blow job but what pushed me over the edge was the ass play...during the BJ. I finally came....I'd prefer a rim job to a blow job any day...I think like anything sexual....some people prefer certain things...
 

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I've had several times I've met guys and I tell them upfront I'm not into anal, just oral. After JO and sucking and I've cum and then tried to get them off, I do like it when a guy cums in my mouth and want it to happen, they'll say I can't cum from a blow job. I'll try to jack them off but that doesn't work either. Some hint at anal to get off, and others are just done. I've gotten the desired results out of plenty of guys I've always been curious about what's going on with the ones who "can't cum"? Any thoughts?

I suspect that they have not met the right cocksucker.
 

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I also found out a couple guys in my past who had a hard time climaxing, turned out they were on antidepressants, whixh can greatly affect one's ability to climax.
It's true. I was on antidepressants for a few years and I found it almost impossible to cum. Getting hard was difficult too. My desire/libido was still there, but my mind kept drifting and I couldn't help it. It's a very strange feeling.
 

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I am with Scott^. With any new partner, including my now wife, it can be awkward first few sexual encounters (and then once comfortable, I have to make sure to pace myself to not go early!). That said, blow jobs are not a great way to get me to cum 85% of the time. Much prefer thrusting or her riding me. So a random blow job encounter isn't going to be great unless I get comfortable with the person.