Can't cum from a blowjob

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  1. Slamdunk_dude

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    Hey guys,

    I thought I would ask this as it has been bothering me for a while now. It generally takes me a reasonable amount of time to cum during sex, I have no idea why but the shortest time I can seem to take is around 20 minutes unless I am really turned on, and then other times I can go for literally hours.

    For some reason though I have never been able to cum from a blowjob, and I'm not sure why. Even if my girl stays down there for 20 minutes or more it just doesn't happen, it feels great but I never seem to get close to an orgasm.

    Do you think it might be a lack of friction or something? The other thing I was thinking is that sometimes I feel anxious when all the attention is on me, I actually prefer going down on her to her going down on me.

    Any advice would be great, thanks :smile:
     
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    Glad you brought that up. I went into puberty super-early; I was NINE, so I have had a lot of time to thing about this. I have NEVER been able to get off during oral sex. Never knew why. Maybe I'm too used to the feel of a hand or other things. I would welcome other thoughts on this. Dennis
     
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    Tell her to get a tongue ring. You will bust your nut! lol, but maybe im completely wrong, ive only had a few bj's, but the best by FAR was one where the girl had a tongue ring.
     
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    Well Slamdunk dude
    Have you tried 69 at the same time? I mean she's doing you while you are doing her. Try it if you haven't already.
    Prehaps blowjobs are just not a turn-on for you...it ok!
    She probably doesn't want you cumming in her mouth or throat anyway (smile)
    Not a thing wrong how you get your groove on....different strokes for different folk..
    'to each his/her own'
    Just Be Safe, Be Careful, & Enjoy what you two do like!
     
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    depends on who is doing it...skill level in my case I suppose.
     
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    I'd had the same issue all my life. I've had a few who were excellent at it, too... I just don't. I prefer it that way usually.
     
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    huh
     
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    When I get blowjobs it takes me a lot longer to cum than it does with sex. I have even not been able to cum a couple times during blowjobs. But when a girl switches off using her hand and mouth or both at the same time I am able to bust a little faster I dunno maybe you could try that if you haven't already.
     
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    For me it depends on my focus. I usually do not cum during a blow job which is fine for my spouse. However, I have also shot off a load when the activity was hot and fast. No time to go. It all is fun and appreciated. I must agree with another poster here. The 69 position can produce excellent results.
     
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    I have a feeling my circumcision has something to do with me not being able to cum from a blowjob. It takes me a while to cum from sex too. I think too much of that sensitive skin was removed at birth. So I can only cum from the more violent thrusting for sex or masturbation.
     
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    Same for me... I rarely cum from a mouth only blowjob, but moreso if it combines jerking and sucking my cock. I've been able to cum the most when I have some anal stimulation (vibrator) while on the receiving end of a blowjob.

    We are all wired differently - physically and mentally - so don't worry. Just enjoy!
     
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