Can't cum from a blowjob

[Slamdunk_dude]

Hey guys,

I thought I would ask this as it has been bothering me for a while now. It generally takes me a reasonable amount of time to cum during sex, I have no idea why but the shortest time I can seem to take is around 20 minutes unless I am really turned on, and then other times I can go for literally hours.

For some reason though I have never been able to cum from a blowjob, and I'm not sure why. Even if my girl stays down there for 20 minutes or more it just doesn't happen, it feels great but I never seem to get close to an orgasm.

Do you think it might be a lack of friction or something? The other thing I was thinking is that sometimes I feel anxious when all the attention is on me, I actually prefer going down on her to her going down on me.

Any advice would be great, thanks :smile:

 

[Extremecummer]

Glad you brought that up. I went into puberty super-early; I was NINE, so I have had a lot of time to thing about this. I have NEVER been able to get off during oral sex. Never knew why. Maybe I'm too used to the feel of a hand or other things. I would welcome other thoughts on this. Dennis

 

[Kassokilleri2ff]

Tell her to get a tongue ring. You will bust your nut! lol, but maybe im completely wrong, ive only had a few bj's, but the best by FAR was one where the girl had a tongue ring.

 

[Whopper-lee]

Well Slamdunk dude
Have you tried 69 at the same time? I mean she's doing you while you are doing her. Try it if you haven't already.
Prehaps blowjobs are just not a turn-on for you...it ok!
She probably doesn't want you cumming in her mouth or throat anyway (smile)
Not a thing wrong how you get your groove on....different strokes for different folk..
'to each his/her own'
Just Be Safe, Be Careful, & Enjoy what you two do like!

 

[the_reverend]

i'm in the same boat. we've been discussing it over in this thread for a while: http://www.lpsg.org/sex-with-a-large-penis/36945-cumming-from-a-blow-job.html

might be something there that helps. but basically it comes down to...some of us just can't cum from blowjobs. nothing wrong with us, nothing wrong with them. it is what it is.

 

[Pailebot]

depends on who is doing it...skill level in my case I suppose.

 

[lcrm357]

I'd had the same issue all my life. I've had a few who were excellent at it, too... I just don't. I prefer it that way usually.

 

[jt9]

huh

 

[ganja4me]

When I get blowjobs it takes me a lot longer to cum than it does with sex. I have even not been able to cum a couple times during blowjobs. But when a girl switches off using her hand and mouth or both at the same time I am able to bust a little faster I dunno maybe you could try that if you haven't already.

 

[hung]

For me it depends on my focus. I usually do not cum during a blow job which is fine for my spouse. However, I have also shot off a load when the activity was hot and fast. No time to go. It all is fun and appreciated. I must agree with another poster here. The 69 position can produce excellent results.

 

[joe_smith]

I have a feeling my circumcision has something to do with me not being able to cum from a blowjob. It takes me a while to cum from sex too. I think too much of that sensitive skin was removed at birth. So I can only cum from the more violent thrusting for sex or masturbation.

 

[RUDK]

Same for me... I rarely cum from a mouth only blowjob, but moreso if it combines jerking and sucking my cock. I've been able to cum the most when I have some anal stimulation (vibrator) while on the receiving end of a blowjob.

We are all wired differently - physically and mentally - so don't worry. Just enjoy!