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Hello RPM:

Could you explain how it's a problem? Many girls would feel blessed to be with a man who doesn't squirt after a few gentle strokes.

Are you concerned that you may be losing sensation in your penis, hence the workout needed to orgasm? It's an interesting question, but more information would be helpful.
 

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Well to some women, it would be considered rather rough or very rough sex.

Doesn't matter if the woman is my gf of 3 years or a one niter I had met, still need a rather rigourous workout to orgasm.

Yeah am wondering if am losing sensation.

Can't cum at all when masturbating.
 

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I can only come after some heaving masturbation, I havn't really tried it out wiht my girlfriend though, When she last gave me a blow job it felt ok but I wasn't anywhere near coming, I told her that it would probably be a problem and that I'd loose interest with such little sensation after a while. We were laughing about asking the doc for some viagra so didn't really have the option of going soft.

I get a boner well easy but it can take me hours to come, When I told osme of my mates they couldn't believe it which I thought was odd, do most guys cum real fast?

It used to take me a while but when I start med for MDD it got insane, at first I was jacking all day everyday for a week. I couldn't come but the tension was horrible.
 

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It used to take me a while but when I start med for MDD it got insane, at first I was jacking all day everyday for a week. I couldn't come but the tension was horrible.

MDD = Major Depressive Disorder?

Meds for depression are notorious for causing anorgasmia in men and women. I've been there and it sucks. Wellbutrin (bupropion) seems to have the opposite effect. Sometimes if the side effects are intolerable (like anorgasmia), you have to talk to your doctor about switching medications.
 

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do most guys cum real fast?
When I started masterbating in my teens, it took me about 5 minutes, and I was doing it several times a day.

Last year, it took about 10-15 minutes. Now it takes well over a hour. I can get rock hard within a minute, but I get bored whilst masturbating, my hands hurt, I give up; and try again later. About 30 seconds after removing my hands from my cock, its floppy, with just the head showing (I'm uncut).

Having sex is different - I get a hardon within about a minute, but after a couple of minutes of fucking, it goes all floppy again, which kinda makes it a little difficult to continue.

Also on meds: Immuno-suppressants.
 

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I guess I prefer it a bit more slowly so I can really "feel" her pussy (or mouth) grasping tightly around my thick cock. The feeling of her pussy ridges drives me wild. mmmm

But look out when I do cum... I explode fast and hard and pound deep and long.

nuff said...
 

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Sometimes anorgasmia can be helped by doing Kegel exercises. They are often recommended for the opposite condition, premature ejaculation. But ironically, having good voluntary control of the pc muscle can also sometimes give you better control when you want to deliberately trigger and ejaculation.
 

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I've started having a similar problem lately. When my girlfriend and I are having sex, I can't seem to cum. We will go at it for a long time, changing positions sometimes. I think she feels bad, like she hasn't been able to make me feel good. On the plus side, she can cum multiple times. I thinks it's some kind of reversal, the faster she cums (and the more often), the longer it seems to take me.
 

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do most guys cum real fast?.


Yes,depends on the penetration and arousal..
There are times that i cum fast when i masturbate but there are also times when i need hard penetration of my dick just to cum..There are also times that i cum fast during sex but oftentimes it take me an hour before i cum..:smile:

I think that during sex when you feel like you're about to cum try to stop for awhile so as not to cum quickly...hahaha