As some of you my have read in my introduction, I've only been with 3 different girls. This has met with mixed results. Girl #1, never ever got me off. Not with sex, not with oral sex, not with manual stimulation. Sex basically resulted in me having to save up pent up sexual anxiety until I could get to the sanctity of my masturbation cave, AKA my computer hutch. Girl #2, eventually was able to get me off. It took FOREVER though. "Gee, your lucky" no, not really. When you've given that much time and effort into such a small pile of white goo, you really question weather or not it's worth it. Girl #3, has yet to get anything out of me. She can't keep going (sex or oral sex) for as long as girlls # 1 or 2, but accepts my need to jerk off afterward, and is much more interested in my pleasure than either of the other two. Things I've tried so far that have not worked. Not jerking off, (the worst 3 weeks of my life!), alcohol (duh!), porn, my hand over her hand, among others. Actually, not jerking off makes it take longer for me by myself. Things we're too square for: anal play, and other people. I'm open to any ideas you may have. Medication, techniques, etc.