Can't cum with girl

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It sounds like a classic case of mismatched sexual needs. You want to do it for an hour, she's done in 15 minutes. It's a tough one to resolve.

If it were the other way around people would claim you weren't being sensitive to her needs.
 

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Testosterone, and high levels of it, are known to increase the ejaculatory urge in men.

A) I would get my levels checked if I was you.


Could you elaborate on this point..? Has anyone had a hormone check - what does it involve?

I've trouble cumming too.... would be handy if this forum had a physician. Guess I could do my own research....
 

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Let me add that the only thing worse than having spent too many years masturbating a lot for getting used to cumming with another person, is if you have spent all those years masturbating always doing it the same way, in the same position, with the same fantasies, etc. Some of my partners over the years have had a really hard time cumming, with me or anyone else, because their body and mind were only used to one narrow routine, played over and over again.
 

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It's kind of getting better. She can take over the last 10 seconds rather than handing it over and it going away entirely. She also may be going on birth control soon, which makes everything a lot better regardless if one gets off or not.

My insurance runs out in 5 days, and I hate the doctors, so unless I can find some other way to get it done, I probably won't be getting my hormones tested.

I've stopped J/Oing on days I know I'm going to see her, and I've cut back significantly on the days I don't.

Thanks for the advice everyone, I'll let you know if/when it's resolved one way or another.