Cant feel it?

[Lordpendragon]

The world is full of people who can't see beyond the Steak on the menu.

Extremes usually find more common ground than the normal and that is because there is an innate acceptance of the diverse which to my mind makes you a far more interesting human being.

I hope you hang around Smallguy and thanks for your perspective.

 

[summertime01]

Lordpendragon,
I've only been w/ two men, my ex & my present partner-who is well-endowed. If it so happens that we ever break-up & if I'm still visiting this site (the only reason that I came here was due to issues w/ him having a large penis & me being very tight) & if I were to choose to become intimate again, then I'll let you know. I do kegels regularly, so do not think feeling a smaller man would be a problem.

 

[Annie Mae]

Originally posted by nineinaday@May 25 2005, 10:59 AM
I am anywhere from 6" long to 6.8" long and usually have 5.8" girth. I have been with lots of ladies and 99.9% of them I could please extremely well. I do agree that you do need a penis at least 6" long to please a woman, but besides that, it's mroe about the "technique". If there's no "motion in the ocean" there's no orgasm, simple as that.

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then thats the obvious difference between the women you dig in and women like me. I dont care how you compensate for being average. fuck that, i'm negative. you ever consider some women just like nice dick sizes cuz they want the loooong stroke? I mean when you look at men physically, there is NOTHING to you except your fucking penises. An arm is an arm, the only toy you have is the organ, of all the things a woman has to play with, ya'll should at least be able to be a decent bargain on that end. and its the least dudes can deal with considering the mindfuck job the industry does on average women.

 

[Knight]

The industry? Would that be the porn industry? Where men have usually larger than average penises? I don't know which is worse but both men and women get 'mindfucked' by pornos, if they let themselves be...

And there are girls who dont know how to use what they have too, then there are men who are great in bed. It all depends on so many things. There are nice guys who also come with penises, there really is more to a guy than his cock. Shoulders and hair to play with for example.

 

[jonb]

Originally posted by Annie Mae@May 30 2005, 05:46 AM
I mean when you look at men physically, there is NOTHING to you except your fucking penises.

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So you'd date a short fat balding albino if he had nine inches?

 

[Annie Mae]

Short and albino, yes. Fat, NO. I mean if they can't even take care of themselves physically......

If the personality is straight and we click, it's a turn on. Again, I would date and HAVE dated "ugly" guys who are nice over guys that are good looking but act like assholes. Hmmm, perhaps I should clarify. I have nothing against a nice guy whos good looking and I have nothing against a nice guy with charisma or charm. In fact I would date either one in a minute. However, if you're talking about a good loooking guy who is an asshole, or a guy with charm who is triflin' and tries to charm his way out of situations. I don't want either one.

 

[OldLady]

Originally posted by rope9839+May 24 2005, 01:49 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(rope9839 &#064; May 24 2005, 01:49 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>My latest girlfriend told me of a previous guy who had a cock "the size of a cocktail sausage." He warned her in advance and made sure he gave her a lot of oral pleasure first. She did admit to me that she really couldn&#39;t feel much of anything when he "penetrated" her. When I pointed out that I had gotten her off with the tip of my pinky in the past, she responded that you have a lot more control of a finger. A tiny cock really isn&#39;t comparable.

I will also tell you that she is a bit of an evil, manipulating bitch and loves to play head games with guys. Apparently, she has used the "is it in yet" line a few times just to screw with a guy&#39;s ego. I don&#39;t take this kind of mindfuck crap from her, but she has apparently really hurt a few guys in the past. From what she says, one guy even welled up in tears. Luckily, she has some other redeeming qualities.
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Rope,

Thanks for the explanation. Unfortunately, I can not disagree with you about many women having the manipulative B persona. But I think that is also a result of the unspoken rule that often women have had to make things happen behind the scenes or through the good graces of others. So, manipulation became a quality that guaranteed survival. Manipulation is by no means a gender specific quality. However, I still find it galls me to my very soul.

Naughty

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Egad...&#33; That is horrendous what your ex-gf did, I&#39;m sorry to say. I&#39;m in line with what Naughty said, it is galling.

For a moment, I&#39;ll be a party pooper a bit: That type of manipulation and viciousness could be consider mental cruelty/battery under many circumstances. In my opinion, there is no legitimate excuse beyond mental illness (and then I want that to be cause for involuntary commitment&#33 for treating someone who is supposed to be a romantic partner, like that. If a man galling insults and comments like that to a woman, she&#39;d probably get many people&#39;s sympathies, but men probably don&#39;t have many outlets at all for mental abuse like that.

For background, I also say this with the memory of a friend&#39;s conversation with me a while ago. One of his close friends from childhood and fellow college friends married a woman that was mentally severely abusive, domineering, and manipulative. This childhood friend of his was one of the sweetest, gentlest, kindest men around, very smart, yet also a physically huge stature, etc. He could be a guy&#39;s guy and treat women nicely. After more than ten years married to this woman who treated him horrendously (there were numerous, endless stories of things she said and did to him in public and that he infrequently confided about), he committed suicide. There was no direct warning or indication that he planned this other than exhibiting some signs - clear in hindsight - of depression. His parents were torn up over his suicide as were the rest of the people in their community. He didn&#39;t want to divorce and had been struggling with the marriage and their relationship for a long time.

I don&#39;t remember how we ended up talking about his late friend, but we talked quite a while. I think his friend committed suicide about 3-5 years ago, I&#39;m not quite sure when. It was devastating to everyone except the "widow" who was not unexpectedly very cold after his suicide, even.

 

[OldLady]

Originally posted by jonb@May 26 2005, 08:01 PM
Yeah, well, we already knew women could be bitches. Men, it takes a lot to break up a male friendship. I&#39;m talking one guy has to irreparably harm the other in some manner. Female friendships can break up over just about anything.

Women also have more power in relationships than they like to let on.

Oh, and it&#39;s Darth Sidious, so you were both wrong. I don&#39;t know why they thought of that name; Palpatine was obviously a reference to Palatine, though.

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Times like this I am reluctantly female.

Reading about rope9839&#39;s ex-girlfriend and thinking back about other things, I can understand the feeling. It&#39;s times like this I&#39;d joke with my gay male friends that they are "lucky" they&#39;re not straight and when I say I&#39;m glad I&#39;m not a lesbian. From my "inside" view, women can be unbelieveably malevolent at times and capable of sadism, emotional, physical, and sexual. Thank goodness it is relatively rare at those extreme degrees, but in my own experience, it is not an uncommon dynamic that women often will strive for and wield covert power.

At the same time, men also do this as well, but usually with a different style. I think women are more loathed and feared because it&#39;s sort of like an iron fist wrapped in a velvet glove (maybe the better metaphor is a "steel magnolia" concept, I&#39;m not sure though).

I responded several minutes ago on this same theme, but I will reiterate that emotional (as well as physical and sexual) cruelty is perpetrated by each men and women, straight, gay, or lesbian. I consider this stuff a version of domestic violence as it is mental abuse between intimate partners, but unfortunately usually only female victims in heterosexual relationships can expect some degree of protection, support, or alliances when they need help. Other types of victims (male abused by female, same sex, trans couples, among others) in relationships get much less sympathy and help. Victims in these other types of DV relationships often act out in desperation, infrequently resorting to (completed or attempted) homicide or suicide as way outs. Not fun and no happy endings.

 

[OldLady]

Originally posted by smallguy@May 27 2005, 03:11 PM
i&#39;ve read i few posts here before and decided and thought i&#39;d add my 2 cents. I&#39;m one of the extremely rare cases, i was born with a condition called micropenis so i know what its like to be the size of a cocktail sausage when hard,like one guys girlfriend mentioned in a previous post and no women can&#39;t feel it, at least the couple times i had sex they didn&#39;t. Don&#39;t worry i&#39;m not a bitter angry small guy about it like some would be, i know why your all here and i respect that women like big ones, or at least bigger then me, both the women i was with told me they couldn&#39;t feel it and one was a virgin, one kept askin are you sure your in&#33; i&#39;ve been intimate with alot more women but do to the size they lost interest when the pants came off, i&#39;ve had alot of bad reactions you can imagine, they all laughed,a few laughed hysterically, two were mad about it, but i&#39;m used to it now so it doesn&#39;t bother me anymore, i guess it would look funny to most females especially if they&#39;ve had an average one or bigger, anyways its definitely possible to be to small to feel&#33; i&#39;m sure there are a few more like me out there to, hopefully you ladies can avoid them in sexual situations that is, lol

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Though I&#39;m on this community too, I&#39;ll mention I&#39;m actually not really a size queen. I&#39;m here mostly because I have had former partners that were very endowed at times, but that&#39;s been incidental, not deliberate. Sex, to me, is more than just a penis and there&#39;s more to "making love" than penile penetration. Large penises doesn&#39;t make a man either a better or more sensitive lover.

This doesn&#39;t mean I&#39;d necessarily not be surprised or shocked if a potential mate turned out to have a micropenis, but at least the fundamental idea of that doesn&#39;t automatically dissuade me. It really does matter to me what the rest of the package is like: Do I like him fundamentally, do we get along well in general and not in terms of sex, does he consider my needs and am I sensitive to his, as well. Extremes in sizes, I think it&#39;s very considerate to forewarn a potential lover, but also because I suspect it makes it easier to cope with the issue head on before things get too far for you, perhaps.

I suppose this is just a long way of saying I appreciate you saying something on the matter and being able to deal with things.

 

[StillUnsure]

My wife has never complained about not feeling me, but sometimes I think they she probably doesn&#39;t get a lot of sensation when we&#39;re having sex. As I&#39;ve mentioned in other posts, I don&#39;t really belong on this board with my 6.5x6 erect penis, but there doesn&#39;t seem to be an average penis support group. Anyway, we use toys that make me look plenty small, and they slide in with ease. Based on this, I think there have to be women who "can&#39;t feel it" depending how the partners match up in size.

 

[Nienna]

I did hook up with this one guy once, years and years ago. Not only did the condom slip off he was so small, but I didn&#39;t feel anything and he shot his load within a minute. It was the most awful sexual experience I have ever had.

I don&#39;t mean to sound cruel or mean, but it was awful for me, and I&#39;m sure he wasn&#39;t to happy about it either. I do hope he has found someone he fits with.

 

[lapdog2001]

Originally posted by StillUnsure@Jun 22 2005, 10:47 PM
My wife has never complained about not feeling me, but sometimes I think they she probably doesn&#39;t get a lot of sensation when we&#39;re having sex. As I&#39;ve mentioned in other posts, I don&#39;t really belong on this board with my 6.5x6 erect penis, but there doesn&#39;t seem to be an average penis support group. Anyway, we use toys that make me look plenty small, and they slide in with ease. Based on this, I think there have to be women who "can&#39;t feel it" depending how the partners match up in size.

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Stillunsure, don&#39;t think that you do not have a large penis, as you are above average in both length and girth. I am only 1/2 inch longer than you, with the same girth, and every woman I&#39;ve been with has commented on how big I am. Most women appreciate the extra girth over the extra length, so you have no reason to feel inadequate in any way.

Yes, there are some &#39;giants&#39; here, but they are very rare, and the nature of this group is going to attract people who are above average.

LapDog :9 :9

 

[ItsJustMe]

In a way I&#39;m pleased to see that this thread is still active. A few weeks ago I began a new relationship with a great guy and we got intimate last weekend. For those of you that remember I joined this forum because I was seeing someone incredibly well-endowed, though that relationship ended pretty much after I got here.

Being that I haven&#39;t been with that many men (four total, and I was married for many years) I never believed size made a difference. My new guy is very attentive and enjoys pleasuring me but he is on the small side and I can feel a difference. It certainly isn&#39;t a deal breaker as he makes up for it in many other ways but I can tell.

 

[StillUnsure]

Thank you for the kind words, Lapdog. I suppose, as with everything, one&#39;s perspective is a massive portion of every opinion. I just took a look at your profile; nice specimen by the way. If I had to guess after seeing your picture, I would swear that your girth easily makes me look pre-pubescent. Size is certainly relative to a certain extent, and I just feel like I&#39;m a bit on the small side for someone standing 6&#39; 5". Not only does my penis look small in relation to my body, I also feel completely lost inside my wife who is a very dainty individual. That goes back to my original comment of needing partners to match up in size for mutual enjoyment; especially for a woman to feel her partner.

 

[Lordpendragon]

Size is a two way equation - a lot of men would be a lot happier if this was gnerally reported and accepted rather than the burden always falling solely on our cocks.

I am not one of the huge guys here - and I have had experiences at both ends of the scale - couldn&#39;t get it in and couldn&#39;t touch the sides. I saw a clip on video-post the other day where I am sure the intention was that a hung guy would pound some poor little woman, and the brazilian woman certainly was petite and flat chested - but when you saw the close up of the guy&#39;s otherwise impressive cock, you could see that she could probably have taken two of what he had.

 

[deewil]

Originally posted by Annie Mae@May 31 2005, 04:50 AM
However, if you&#39;re talking about a good loooking guy who is an asshole, or a guy with charm who is triflin&#39; and tries to charm his way out of situations. I don&#39;t want either one.

This makes me think of a guy I used to work with several years ago. He was always hinting with others in the office (but not me, since I was married) about his being well endowed, and he had a rather nice body and face. But his personality tended to be swarmy or in the asshole category, and that in my eyes made him a real turn off. It&#39;s situations like that that remind me of how unrealistic or silly it is for any guy to think that big dick size alone will save the day.

 

[root00]

I know women who argue strongly on either side of the equation and I know that I am on the undrside of average, so I consider myself fortunate enough to only have one my partners ever tell me she couldn&#39;t feel me in her vagina. Thank God she enjoyed anal too.

 

[absinthium]

I&#39;ve been with guys of various sizes.
I&#39;ve always felt their penis inside me.

I don&#39;t know how you couldn&#39;t feel something in your vag, even if it was just a matchstick, but that&#39;s just me.

 

[Knight]

I don&#39;t know if I&#39;ve said this before but I stuck my little (pinky) finger in my gf. It was actually as a joke since she said her last bf was about that small (exaggerating though I think). I said &#39;can you feel it? You like that?&#39; lol or somethin like that. Anyways after she stopped laughin she said yeah she could feel it. My little finger is 2.5" long and 2" around.

Maybe the other girls who said they couldn&#39;t feel it were lying or being mean?

 

[Gisella]

Because i'm very wet when aroused i will not feel a man if he is kind of small solution: dry me up to keep feeling the frictions during sex. That's all.

Never had a man "so small" that i could not feel him.