Hey everyone, so I've been in a casual relationship with a guy for a few months now and it's been really great except for one pretty crucial area on my end...despite anything that's happening, whether I am fucking him or getting head or even just having him jack me off it's almost impossible for me to cum. Only twice of the dozen or so times we've gotten together have I actually finished because of something that he was doing. Now I don't think the problem is that he's doing a bad job, personally I think it could just be related to the fact that the first two guys I had experiences with would ONLY accept me jerking off at the end. Now it seems like I just can't get off when there's just another person around me, and as you probably can tell this does more than ruin the mood a little bit. Does anyone have similar troubles or have suggestions how we can improve it? I'm not the most experienced person so it's kind of hard for me to know what I could change.