Can't get hard without kissing

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  1. JonahFalcon

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    Just wondering how many of you have bf's or are men who simply can't get hard without kissing.
     
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    I knew a dude like that once. Turned out he was gay.
     
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    wow jacking off must be tuf
     
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    The guy probably had to make out with his hand in order to get it up.

    I seriously wont get wet without a mouth on my body somewhere. Can't say the same for men. Usually, you take the shirt off, hike up the skirt a bit, and they're pitching a tent in no time.
     
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    I love kissing as much as my wife does, however she doesn't really like to kiss during foreplay or sex. I don't need kissing or to be kissed to get a hard on. A look, a touch, or a thought is all that I need.
     
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    I'm guessing they must exist. Some of those are the dudes who hire exclusively hookers who offer the girlfriend/boyfriend experience: Kissing.
     
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    Does this mean I have to kiss you?:wink:
     
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    Hi Cutie,

    I'll kiss you. Is it lipstick on your dipstick you'll be needing,
    or real mouth to mouth action? I'm in Jersey but I can take the train to NYC and be there in 1.5 hours. Just Kidding :biggrin1:


    I don't personally know of any men who can't get hard without kissing. Sorry if this is an issue for you; I guess it renders porn totally unnecessary.

    njqt466

     
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    I like kissing. I don't think I would want to have sex without kissing, and a lot of it.
     
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    LMAO Big thats too true!! No never had one who couldnt get hard just with a look actually, specially if I flipped my skirt up when I walked by him so nonchalantly :biggrin1:
     
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    yes, that should be good enough. Even posting anonymous pics on the internet:biggrin1:
     
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    I'm guessing it's more of an emotional need than a physical one. Probably just needs to believe the other person really likes them.
     
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    I get a hard-on everytime i kiss, that's the other way around, isn't it?
    Maybe I simply love kissing :)
     
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    That too is a good point. I really do love to kiss, if the guy isn't:
    1. trying to reach my belly through my mouth with his tongue
    2. pushing my teeth backwards into my tonsils with his lips

    basically, sensuality is key. Softly begin kissing lips, slowly exploring the texture and shape of each others mouth, dont forget the hands must be somewhere, also sensually exploring! Then the tongue can begin a slow steady exploration of the others mouth and tongue, enjoy the kiss for the sexiness of the kiss itself- and yeah thats true guys have gotten hard when kissing me which was a big turn on- as I too have gotten wet from kissing, especially if he kisses me as outlined (above).
    *sigh* Now I really wanna kiss.:tongue:
     
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    so true. I remember one of my ex-gf's was kinda.... well first kiss i started soft and only lips and she forced her tongue into my mouth. that was kinda fast for the first kiss i think. well, she was kinda inexperienced.
     
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