I had a girlfriend who couldn't get off from penetration. She had to have her clit stimulated to have an orgasm. When it came to the intercourse, she often seemed not so excited, or would lose momentum after a short time. She did like to do "exciting" or "hot" things in intercourse. Like taking her doggy style while she was trying to get ready, or sex in public places. I assume she felt the excitement helped to compensate for the lack of being able to come through penetration. *My real question is...Do you have the same issue with not getting off with intercourse? And do you really enjoy penetration that much? And is size still so much a stimulating thing?