Cant get off

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  1. GoneA

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    Porn? maybe.
     
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    I have the same issue man - i have found that you have to be well lubed and just sit back and enjoy what is happening

    not sure if that helps?

    Tony
     
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    I remember that it took quite a few blow jobs before I ejaculated in my wifes mouth. It wasn't her technique or any thing other than my inability to relax and learning to enjoy the sensations of her mouth, tongue and hands on my penis and balls. It was such a big difference from what I was used to.

    I was used to my hands moving at my rhythms, anticipating and reacting to my own motions and fantasies and I had a much firmer, rougher grip. In a sense it was all about me until I met her and I had to learn to enjoy her touch and movements.

    Let me tell you that I thoroughly enjoy her blowjobs and I have no problems orgasming in her mouth even after 31 years.
     
  4. Cthulhu

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    Check my post, really helped me

    http://www.lpsg.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=14757
     
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    Check my post, really helped me

    http://www.lpsg.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=14757
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    I too can only get off when masturbating with my right hand, but it has had no effect on my ability to ejaculate during regular male/female sex or while getting a blowjob from another guy. However, I also cannot do anal sex, as a top. When I try, my hard on goes away at once. So, can't use my left hand or do anal sex as a top. Everything else works. Obviously, there is as much psychology as physiology when it comes to sex and orgasm. I have just given up trying to figure it out and enjoy what I can do.
     
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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Caseyjones &#064; Oct 25 2005, 06&#58;27 PM) [post=355300]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
    I can get off through conventional sex and masturbating with my right hand, only. My girl has tried everything with her hands and mouth to get me off that way because she refuses to have sex with me on her period(long story). I have explained and showed her how to get me off with her hands. Again we are met with failure. She is starting to doubt herself(which in part is true) anything I can say or topics you can refer me too? Anything I could do to get off easier for her.
    she would suck and jerk till i got sore and flacid and it is just a pain.
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    Try refraining from getting off (through intercourse or masturbation) for awhile. During that time, relax and let her jerk or suck you without expecting that you&#39;ll come. Sooner or later you&#39;ll come. I&#39;m guessing that eventually you&#39;ll become more sensitive and more used to that kind of stimulation bringing you off.
     
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