cant keep it up kinda

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by bigk4, Sep 27, 2005.

  1. bigk4

    bigk4 New Member

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    whenever i have sex it doesnt seem to stay up through and through and then it flops, 10 mins later i can get it back hard but then the same happens over n over kinda thing.

    someone told me its performance anxiety but i dont know, help me plz :mad: :nopity:
     
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    You don't say how old you are or if you are, just having sex for the first time, or how long you are hard before you go soft.

    If you are just becoming sexually active, then it can be performance anxiety.
    Are you nervous about being caught?
    Does the same thing happen when you masturbate?
    Were you drunk?
    Were you stoned?
    On any other medication, legal or not?

    All of the above could have an impact on your ability to maintain an erection.
    If you were 100% sober, on no medications, and not nervous, then I'd suggest seeing a Urologist.

    LapDog :p
     
  3. mordecai17

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    Sometimes I have erections problems, but I'm young (19) and have none of the major causes of ED. I think I just might have poor circulation. I will tell you though, worrying about your performance certaintly does not help matters at all. Relaxation is key here. THink about when you masterbate, you're not concerned with whether or not you;ll stay hard, or if shes enjoying it, or if you'll cum too soon, you're just enjoying the sensations. Just really try to enjoy yourself and not be a "spectator".
     
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