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Have you ever heard of the Start and stop technique. Start jacking off and when you feel the orgasm approaching stop for 10 seconds and then start again. See how many times you can do it, also do kegels, strenghten your esfincter because it is the same muscle that controls ejaculation, hope I helped, cheers.
 

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You should engage in a massage technique known as JELQING, there are several posts in the forum about how to do this and some guys give routines and such. I have an animation I created from a video of mine where I am jelqing to show you how it is done. I cannot recall what they are currently but there are a number of natural supplements that you can take also & I am sure someone reading this will know exactly what they are.

Good luck man!

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Don't know how old you are, but I will tell you that I have "dabbled" with Viagra, and it's a stamina booster. Not necessarily a good thing because I already had pretty good stamina. So basically I have difficulty cumming at all when I'm on it.

But what Jason said is good: just blast off quickly and the second time around should be better.
 

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Don't know how old you are, but I will tell you that I have "dabbled" with Viagra, and it's a stamina booster. Not necessarily a good thing because I already had pretty good stamina. So basically I have difficulty cumming at all when I'm on it.

But what Jason said is good: just blast off quickly and the second time around should be better.

Stay away from the blue pill! For her sake.
 

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what do you mean by "trouble lasting?" a lot of dudes think they need to fuck for an hour to please a woman, when in reality (and it's been studied) that most women prefer an average of 5-15 minutes of penetration only. As long as they orgasm at some point during the session, either during sex, or orally or digitally before or after penetration, whatever, and as long as you are both having a good time and are "in the groove" so to speak, you'll still be a stud in her eyes.

but, the start/stop method and doing kegels to stengthen ur PC muscles is usually the best advice to try and last longer if you need to as suggested by a previous responder.
 

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I hear what some of the replies to the OP are saying about you woman not caring how quick you are as long as she orgasms, and I'm sure there is truth to that. And I get the guy asking why you want masturbation to last, but I totally understand why you want to. In fact, practicing lasting during masturbation is a good strategy for building up endurance. I know that I like to last longer because I'M HAVING A FUCKING GOOD TIME and I don't want it to be over yet.

When I was younger maybe I could cum and then go for a second round, but now it's more trouble than it's worth often. So I like to make it last longer building up to my first (and sometimes only) orgasm. I've found a cockring can help, but that's not always available. Thinking about something else doesn't work so much for me. The best thing in my experience is being very "in the moment" so I know when I'm getting close, then slowing it down, changing, stopping to kiss some more, or whatever until the on the edge feeling subsides seems to work the best.

Mainly, you need to be very in tune with the difference between close, almost there, and over the edge. If you're like me, that lines not always consistent.

One last thing, for me at least. If I've not jacked off or had sex of any kind for awhile, I often shoot much sooner than I want. So, regular sex (by yourself or with a partner) can do wonders for your stamina.
 
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Why would you want to last during masturbation?

As far a sex goes just go slow and stop thinking about it

Most guys first sex experience was by masturbation. Young, horny, some felt shameful, afraid of getting caught, etc. So---they hurried. And, in doing so, trained themselves to come quick. And most did it a lot. Reversing the process takes at least as much time/practice---unless you got a mentor.
 
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Edging. Practice control by yourself. During sex, take a break and eat pussy or something.

If you can go twice, do that. I used to cum once orally or otherwise before sex and then I would last as long as I wanted.

Some men can tighten the pc muscle and not ejaculate even though they are having an orgasm. I stay hard when I do that, and my next orgasm doesn't come for a while.