Cant play with his dick

[wallaboi]

I've only had one boyfriend and we dated for nearly a year and it was 6 months before I slept with him. I took that time so I could get to know him and get USED to him. When someone is in your intimate space and you know them and how they move they eventually get used to your touch & crave it. It can become comforting after a while. Perhaps the sex that's in his mind is more physical than mental. For me, when my brain is attacted to the sex that I'm having I'm far more uninhibited when my partner is touching me.

Massaging your partner's body can really help them to relax more and get used to your touch. Touching someone and fucking them are completely different. Try to train his body with your hands. You should try to touch him more outside of the sex that you have and maybe he'll gradually let you touch him more on his dick when your touch (sexual or not) becomes more common to him. I've been thinking about it and that's what I came up with:smile:

Best advice so far. I think relaxation and trust are the keys intimacy.

 

[2322]

Too sensitive for a blowjob but he can plow away on you? Maybe it's a control issue. If he's controlling his body, he can handle the contact more. Maybe letting himself go in that fashion to you is too much for him to handle.

Ladies and gentlemen we have a winner!!
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[B_thickjohnny]

After 3 years I'm tired of the "don't touch me there" crap. I can't touch his balls because they are sensitive, I can't touch his cock (he's uncut) because of sensitivity, I can't touch his butt hole because he just doesn't care for that. But I'm suppose to spread my legs whenever he's in the mood. Sex is more like bam bam thank you ma'am. He gets off rolls over and is asleep. Relationships are more than just sex, I know, but it does play a role and bring like this is very frustrating. In my case, BF even tells me that he knows he's not good or what I might expect and said he "gives permission" to get it somewhere else. WTF does that mean? He's 30 years younger than me and inexperienced. I knew that going into this but did it anyway because he's mature in all other areas. Sex is good - or has been good but lately it's turned into the bam bam thing I described above. Early on he was open to trying new things but not anymore. Sometimes I think he's messing around but I have no way of proving it. He's got an easy life for a 23 year old. Still in school and living in a nice house where I pay for almost everything - mortgage, utilities, car, gas, insurance etc. He pitches in but here and there. I think I should have gone with my gut 3 years ago when i thought that the age gap was too big to work.

 

[petec]

I have this problem, but, only when I cum. The wife can stroke/suck it forever, no problem, but as I reach climax, I just have to pull away/help out. It really is frustrating. You'd think after 23 years of marriage, I'd have gotten over it by now.

 

[PornBuddy]

Tie him up spread eagle lick and touch his entire body and and jerk and suck him off!

I agree, this seems more like a mental thing than physical, so getting him used to giving up control and learning to control his cock is the best way to go.
I would suggest tying him up, and then spending an hour edging him, leaving him alone, then coming back and working his cock some more... whenever you can tell he's close to cumming you stop.

This will build up his tolerance of masturbation and oral, and I'll bet you end up giving him the most intense climaxes he's ever had!