Hi man, not many of us British guys are circumcised and the bottom line is noone really likes to wear condoms - it's a necessary evil. Kudos to you for sticking with them though. Even though the free condoms are good, it's worth trying lots of different types so you know what fits you best. Also, who puts your condom on? Do you do it yourself or does your gf do it for you? Mate, I highly recommend getting her to do it, and incorporate it into your foreplay. That way the process of putting on a rubber becomes a sexy part of the whole experience, and not an unwelcome interlude.
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Hi man, not many of us British guys are circumcised and the bottom line is noone really likes to wear condoms - it's a necessary evil. Kudos to you for sticking with them though. Even though the free condoms are good, it's worth trying lots of different types so you know what fits you best. Also, who puts your condom on? Do you do it yourself or does your gf do it for you? Mate, I highly recommend getting her to do it, and incorporate it into your foreplay. That way the process of putting on a rubber becomes a sexy part of the whole experience, and not an unwelcome interlude.
Hey mate, I don't know what's on offer by C-Card as I've never used them, and I'm too old now to qualify, but there are hundreds of different condoms. There are plenty of places to get free condoms other than that scheme, but generally they're quite generic. It depends on so many different things, not to mention simple preference.
Best thing to do is experiment... you'll find the best one for you.
For example...
- Size - it's got to be the right size for your cock.
- Shape - you can get 'easyon', flared condoms, straight, studded, ribbed and more.
- Material - most condoms are latex but some people have allergies so you can get different types.
- Flavour/colour/other novelty...
Sorry not much help, but without knowing about your requirements my best advice is to try as many different types as you can.
I have too much foreskin. With a condom, I pushed my foreskin back and put it on while it was retracted. Initially I used a condom that was snug, not too tight, just snug...worked sort of ok
jonglobe, might sound obvious but it absolutely goes without saying that you have to retract your foreskin right back before you put the condom on.
You mentioned not being comfortable coming on your girlfriend. Frankly, it'll be pretty hard to go your whole life without coming on your partner(s). In fact, some people (including, believe it or not, some women) like getting cum on them from time to time - especially when you're avoiding coming inside someone. So maybe you'll have to just force yourself to cum on her some day. That's all I mean. Do things with your gf that stretch your limits a bit. That's the great part about having a steady partner - safely testing your limits.
Frankly, I think the kung-fu-grip-causing-insensitivity thing really only applies to cut guys (I think...I'm generalising from cut guys I've known). I only mentioned that in case you were cut. Nevermind.
I don't know your familiarity with condom use. Carter has great advice about it, but it's key to roll back your foreskin and apply some lube (not gobs) to your cock first, before rolling the condom on. This allows something closer to your foreskin's normal motion.
Yeah, condoms aren't the best, but you get massive respect from me for sticking with them. Good on you, and good for showing such respect for your partner. Anyway, it could very well be that it's hard for you to get used to, and is messing with your nerves. Masturbating a few times with a condom couldn't hurt.
Your girlfriend has found herself a great catch. You wouldn't believe how many female friends and acquaintances have complained to me that their boyfriends think all they need to do is shove their dicks in and go for five unsatisfying minutes. There are women out there who would kill to have a guy who is willing to eat them out to orgasm.
Tell her that. Then eat her pussy until she's weak in the knees. She'll believe you.
Thanks for all the advice guys - I now feel much more comfortable and kinda less nervous about it all. I don't really think there's anything else I want to ask, unless there's any advice people want to give me?
Just let us know how you get on mate. Good luck!
here are a few things that have worked for me...
1. exercise...a daily cardio workout does wonders for the heart, and you can do cardio daily unlike weight training.
2. high intake of raw foods...i cant stress enough the importance of having as high raw food intake. it helps to rid your body of its toxins, and cooked food does nothing for the body nutrition wise
3. water water water... 8 to 10 glasses per day is what we all need. lay off of the pop and alcohol, smoking is a no no as well.
1. exercise...a daily cardio workout does wonders for the heart, and you can do cardio daily unlike weight training.
2. high intake of raw foods...i cant stress enough the importance of having as high raw food intake. it helps to rid your body of its toxins, and cooked food does nothing for the body nutrition wise
3. water water water... 8 to 10 glasses per day is what we all need. lay off of the pop and alcohol, smoking is a no no as well.
