Yeah, another best friend thread! I haven't really posted here a lot before but I've snooped around.
So in the last half a year I've become best friends with this guy...and it's amazing because he's the first (straight) guy I've come out to and he accepts me for all my quirks and whatever else. I want to be content being best friends with him but it's getting harder and harder to do that.
I could probably go on for hours about him but I'll try to keep this brief (for now). Basically if theres a guy that you tell everything to...talk about like masturbation techniques (kind of), work out with, see in boxers / with shirt off constantly...how do you not want more? I don't know what the best course of action is...I just know that right now I'm really frustrated because I want more but don't want to ruin friendship and I know if it goes further it wouldn't go much since he's straight. And yes, he really is COMPLETELY straight just really open. But I think I'm more attracted to him all around than I have been to any other person...ever.
Would going further and seeing him naked / maybe being jack off buddies (long shot) end this? A lot of the time I'm just fantasizing about him being naked...for some other guys I've wanted to do stuff with my feelings / lust ended after I saw them naked and got off with them...but for him would that maybe work or would it just make me want more?
My other option is making anything sexual taboo in our relationship...which is kind of the part of our relationship I love the most but I don't know how much longer I can take the kind of sexual tension I feel towards him without doing or saying something stupid...I already awkwardly get hard around him a decent amount (and hide it generally). Any advice?
So in the last half a year I've become best friends with this guy...and it's amazing because he's the first (straight) guy I've come out to and he accepts me for all my quirks and whatever else. I want to be content being best friends with him but it's getting harder and harder to do that.
I could probably go on for hours about him but I'll try to keep this brief (for now). Basically if theres a guy that you tell everything to...talk about like masturbation techniques (kind of), work out with, see in boxers / with shirt off constantly...how do you not want more? I don't know what the best course of action is...I just know that right now I'm really frustrated because I want more but don't want to ruin friendship and I know if it goes further it wouldn't go much since he's straight. And yes, he really is COMPLETELY straight just really open. But I think I'm more attracted to him all around than I have been to any other person...ever.
Would going further and seeing him naked / maybe being jack off buddies (long shot) end this? A lot of the time I'm just fantasizing about him being naked...for some other guys I've wanted to do stuff with my feelings / lust ended after I saw them naked and got off with them...but for him would that maybe work or would it just make me want more?
My other option is making anything sexual taboo in our relationship...which is kind of the part of our relationship I love the most but I don't know how much longer I can take the kind of sexual tension I feel towards him without doing or saying something stupid...I already awkwardly get hard around him a decent amount (and hide it generally). Any advice?
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