IrishGirl
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It is interesting that the women who have responded did not find themselves able to make the transition but men were.
I can only speak for myself, but I found that with age the ability to separate my heart and emotions from my vagina came rather naturally.
I have been with the same man for 23 years, but we have had several breaks in our relationship. Sometimes for a few weeks or even months, and once for almost 2 years.
When I was very young (teens and twenties), I had sex only with men I had intense feelings for. Like a lot of very young women, I sometimes did it because I felt it would lead to the feelings being mutual if they weren't already.
By the time I hit my 30's, I was able to have sex with men just because I found them attractive, but sometimes it still didn't feel quite "right". It bothered me on occasion because on some level I felt I should be expecting something more to go along with the sex I was having with men I wasn't in a relationship with.
When I was in my early 40's, I had a disastrous relationship with a 25 year old man. The sex was fantastic, but everything else was excruciating. After we broke up, he called me and said something along the lines of "I'm not sure how to say this but I jerk off twice a day thinking about you (insert various sex acts) -ing me and I agree with you that it's never going to work between us but if you aren't seeing anyone I want you to know that if you ever want to (insert various sex acts) again, I can be there in less than 5 minutes".
It was at that exact moment that I realized there are much worse things in this world than getting fucked silly by a hot 25 year old with no strings attached. From that moment on, I haven't had any issues with it whatsoever :biggrin1: .