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yeah. i live in california, this kind of behavior is pretty common. women just want a free meal primarily. some kind of authentic meaningful connection is secondary to a cool plate they can post on instagram for their friends to see.
 

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i think you're missing the point. the point is a guy takes a girl out to dinner in hopes of love and romance. yet most women admit they just want the free meal.

if that doesn't ring of inauthenticity and manipulation, then i don't know what to tell you.


Cost of doing business.

Shit I have paid for meals for male and female friends just because we're friends, why the hell would I care about doing it on a whim with a female if it could lead to a relationship?
 
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I like to see a woman pay for the date for once. Because they're equal now. They out earn most men now.
 

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i think you're missing the point. the point is a guy takes a girl out to dinner in hopes of love and romance. yet most women admit they just want the free meal.

if that doesn't ring of inauthenticity and manipulation, then i don't know what to tell you.

You mean like a guy who buys dinner when all he really wants is to get all up in that?
 
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i think you're missing the point. the point is a guy takes a girl out to dinner in hopes of love and romance. yet most women admit they just want the free meal.

if that doesn't ring of inauthenticity and manipulation, then i don't know what to tell you.

I think you missed my point. If every woman I ever bought a drink or meal for "put out"; which is the premise of this or not in this case; my cock would have fallen off through abuse or I would be the biggest mas producer of little bastards ever.

Having said that how many guys have promised or dangled the carrot of marriage with absolutely no intent whatsoever of marriage?

Sounds like an even field to me
 

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i love this, i agree. but nobody will buy it. women like being portrayed as victims.

Yikes guys. Gross stereotype and generalizations aside...

...it’s simple market forces. Their demand is high. Pay for the meal if you ask them out. If they ask you out then you can reasonably ask them to pay
 

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just curious how a cited clinical study is considered "gross" and a "generalization." if anything it's actually the opposite of your claim. they carefully studied and surveyed women on this and women responded.

Yikes guys. Gross stereotype and generalizations aside...

...it’s simple market forces. Their demand is high. Pay for the meal if you ask them out. If they ask you out then you can reasonably ask them to pay
 

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just curious how a cited clinical study is considered "gross" and a "generalization." if anything it's actually the opposite of your claim. they carefully studied and surveyed women on this and women responded.
i love this, i agree. but nobody will buy it. women like being portrayed as victims.

You can support these premises...

yeah. i live in california, this kind of behavior is pretty common. women just want a free meal primarily. some kind of authentic meaningful connection is secondary to a cool plate they can post on instagram for their friends to see.

...by citing a “clinical” study?
 

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maybe you didn't read my original post. I cite an article that studies and interviews over 33% of women admit to going on dates with men just for the free food.

Maybe you can start a separate thread about your one guy? Just a thought.


Why is this just something for men to be aware of ?

Accused serial 'dine-and-dash' dater could face up to 13 years in prison

 

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maybe you didn't read my original post. I cite an article that studies and interviews over 33% of women admit to going on dates with men just for the free food.

Maybe you can start a separate thread about your one guy? Just a thought.

Got you, though reading comprehension has never been one of my many fatal flaws. I was just pointing out that this article and probably survey were loosely based on the sensationalism of Man arrested for doing a similar deed

To quote your article, specifically the last sentence

" Researchers also made it a point to note that foodie calls can happen in many types of relationships, and could be performed by any gender. ?
 
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It's just too simple...in all my first dates I've never paid for her meal or drinks.
If we order drinks or food I always ask; "are we splitting this or separate checks?
I've never had or the women haven't had problems with this, 99% of the time it acts as a ice breaker.
If you're honest upfront there's a better chance of getting a 2nd date.

My best first date was when I said "are we splitting this or separate checks? And she said;
We're splitting this as long as you split me later.
We only order a drink and went back to her place and fucked each other's brains out.