everyone is entitled to their own opinion. everyone is also responsible to examine what factors of their personality shape those opinions. this thread is not about concern for her health, or her well being, this thread is about Carmella not fitting the expected body shape her "fans" expect of her. if the motivation was genuine concern or questions the thread might have been posted in a forum other than straight porn.
the only reason a person would react with what you are calling "emotions they can't control" is if they had some sense of connection, possessiveness or loss with her change in appearance. is not the case in reality. you have lost nothing, you are owed nothing and you certainly have no claim to her life choices.
and since her body mass has nothing to do with the functions of your everyday life, won't cause the world economy to crash or cure cancer, it is of no of consequence to you or anyone else. you are not entitled to call her personal choices into question.
if you don't like the way she looks, don't watch her new films. problem solved.
randomly: comparing a fat women to a dead body is fucked up.
eta: another point of my post you failed to notice is the obvious toll a career in porn can have on the women in the industry. i'd imagine the damage goes a bit deeper than bad boobs jobs and UTIs. the high number of suicides seems proof enough of a certain amount of psychological and emotional trauma. over eating has been connected with depression, PSTD and other mental illnesses.
the real question is why in the face of murder, suicide, drug abuse, death from liver disease from drug/alcohol abuse and seroconversion, cancers related to HPV and markedly lower standard of living these women will face after they have left the industry.... why hasn't the attitude toward these performers from outsiders not been more closely examined.
and why the attitude of objectification and blatant misogyny has been allowed and outright encouraged by the consumers of porn.