Carmella Bing....OMG WTF Happened!?

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everyone is entitled to their own opinion. everyone is also responsible to examine what factors of their personality shape those opinions. this thread is not about concern for her health, or her well being, this thread is about Carmella not fitting the expected body shape her "fans" expect of her. if the motivation was genuine concern or questions the thread might have been posted in a forum other than straight porn.

the only reason a person would react with what you are calling "emotions they can't control" is if they had some sense of connection, possessiveness or loss with her change in appearance. is not the case in reality. you have lost nothing, you are owed nothing and you certainly have no claim to her life choices.

and since her body mass has nothing to do with the functions of your everyday life, won't cause the world economy to crash or cure cancer, it is of no of consequence to you or anyone else. you are not entitled to call her personal choices into question.


if you don't like the way she looks, don't watch her new films. problem solved.

randomly: comparing a fat women to a dead body is fucked up.
its called an extreme example, i didnt make a comparison between the two, you just for some reason decided to link the two together (with no reason). Also, thanks to this example, I can fully reject your idea of "no connection = no response".

Emotions arent just based on connections, you can have emotions for everything. You dont know me, you dont know her. You have no connection with either of us, but you are displaying emotion in this writing. A person can even display emotions like shock for things that arent living. I can be shocked about the graphics on the latest video game.

This thread is mostly expressing shock. My first post however was expressing curiosity.

Now, kindly get off your moral high horse of what people can feel, either you dont have too great a range of emotion or you dont understand how it works.

PS: I already said in this thread that I dont watch her stuff at all anyway. Before or after any dramatic life changes.
 

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Oh my god, I'm shocked.

She was always one of my favourite "brand name" pornstars, for being very bubbly and whatnot (and having an incredible rack). I like larger breasted women, but the gain in weight is really not my thing.

To say she's just being unhealthy is ridiculous, though. That kind of change in weight is indicative of something much more than just "being unhealthy" or even having a kid. It seems she has either been diagnosed with something severe that requires steroids and, as a result of the treatment, has uncontrollably put on weight. Or rather, maybe there are just some severe psychological issues like depression that lead her to eat.

I know that because she's a pornstar, she's a celebrity in the same way that she puts herself on display for others judgment-- but for the love of god at least recognize that there has to be something severely wrong here before making insensitive comments.

Yeah, BBWs are not my thing, either. But this is a human being here, and she clearly is not just making some sort of career move with the weight gain.
 

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*puts on his "No Fat Chicks" t-shirt and struts around in front of MickeyLee*

Why do you assume she chose it? Why not just watch her early porn if it's not something you like.

That's so weird to me.

"Only objectify her if you like the way she is. But if you don't like the way she is, stop objectifying her and think about her feelings and real life situation!"

Either it's okay to objectify porn stars or its not. You can't have it both ways.
 
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*puts on his "No Fat Chicks" t-shirt and struts around in front of MickeyLee*



That's so weird to me.

"Only objectify her if you like the way she is. But if you don't like the way she is, stop objectifying her and think about her feelings and real life situation!"

Either it's okay to objectify porn stars or its not. You can't have it both ways.

*sticks tongue out at Ms. Guy-jin*

if ya weren't such an excellent strutter i would so throw jello at you :tongue:
*wolf whistles and gropes Mr. Guy-jin's ass*
 
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im literally LOL'ing at the woman defending Carmella, seriously? She goes off camera for quite some time then comes back the good year blimp. Granted there are health problems in which you gain weight, but you only gain weight if your body is seeing a calorie surplus, and that sure as hell isnt from too many protein shakes
 

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everyone is entitled to their own opinion. everyone is also responsible to examine what factors of their personality shape those opinions. this thread is not about concern for her health, or her well being, this thread is about Carmella not fitting the expected body shape her "fans" expect of her. if the motivation was genuine concern or questions the thread might have been posted in a forum other than straight porn.

the only reason a person would react with what you are calling "emotions they can't control" is if they had some sense of connection, possessiveness or loss with her change in appearance. is not the case in reality. you have lost nothing, you are owed nothing and you certainly have no claim to her life choices.

and since her body mass has nothing to do with the functions of your everyday life, won't cause the world economy to crash or cure cancer, it is of no of consequence to you or anyone else. you are not entitled to call her personal choices into question.


if you don't like the way she looks, don't watch her new films. problem solved.

randomly: comparing a fat women to a dead body is fucked up.

eta: another point of my post you failed to notice is the obvious toll a career in porn can have on the women in the industry. i'd imagine the damage goes a bit deeper than bad boobs jobs and UTIs. the high number of suicides seems proof enough of a certain amount of psychological and emotional trauma. over eating has been connected with depression, PSTD and other mental illnesses.

the real question is why in the face of murder, suicide, drug abuse, death from liver disease from drug/alcohol abuse and seroconversion, cancers related to HPV and markedly lower standard of living these women will face after they have left the industry.... why hasn't the attitude toward these performers from outsiders not been more closely examined.

and why the attitude of objectification and blatant misogyny has been allowed and outright encouraged by the consumers of porn.


Bingo.

Perhaps she is battling clinical depression. It's not uncommon in the industry. Depression, drug use, and all the problems associated with it could cause that. Perhaps she has become diabetic or requires medication that makes her gain weight as a side affect. Who knows? Whatever it is, it clearly does not seem voluntary at all and I hope she will be OK.
 

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Seems she went BBW hardcore!

I always liked her, her scenes were always full of energy and had this super playful, spunky personality.

But seeing her like this....eeeew...not for me.

Pics: Before and after...


i would still hit it :biggrin1:
 

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I came across a vid of Carmella about a month back were she was BBW I thought about mentioning it but wasnt sure if it was old news. I guess it wasnt so old news. All the rumours seem to suggest her pregnancy is the reason for her weight gain. She'll probably work on loosing the weight, in the meantime she is probably cashing in on the BBW market/niche.
 
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ok... this is NONE OF OUR BUSINESS... the person who claims to know her (and there's no reason to not believe this) says there's an issue behind this.

Either watch her old porn or find someone else to watch.... otherwise, move on, folks. Imagine if she read this thread? It's disgusting!
 

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I know her - not super close or anything, but we keep in touch.

That pic is her (no photoshop) and it's a personal thing that shouldn't be any of anybody's business.
Oh, how the mighty have fallen, but I was over her when I saw your avatar. How YOU doin'? ;)