I have read many cases of men who lost the penis (medical, accident, etc) from a home research firm I was working for. I found some of the cases very erotic, for example a couple who made it work after the loss. I also learned a lot. Those are still men in every way, just no penis (or testicles in some cases). There were cases of men who lost the penis and insurance or doctors would not opt for castration after, an especially frustrating thing for single guys especially. After reading the reality of it, I still "get off" on fantasy stories of penis loss, not the cutting part, but the effects of a man after, (sorry guys), just a thing, you know. I do not mind discussing it with men or women here. I wonder if I am one of the few women who is "fascinated" by it.