castration fantasy

[Oxnard]

I haven't read all the posts so pardon me if I say something that has already been said. The first thing that comes to mind is that a fantasy is a fantasy and I hope that people can find ways to play out their fantasies.

However, it also goes through my mind that sometimes fantasies are gateways to far more deviant things in terms of experimentation. For example, a serial killer fantasizes about controlling his pets (because his parents badly control him). Then starts beating up his pets. Then fantasizes about killing them, then does it... then fantasizes about killing people... then eventually turns the fantasy into reality.

Not saying that is the case here or trying to say they are the same... I'm just saying that such fantasies that involve exchanges of power (consensual or not) need to be carried out by totally sane and maintained by people that know where the fantasy needs to end. IMHO it is more important to understand the psychology of why you want to explore a power-play/power-exchange fantasy than it is for you to actually explore it or even ponder it.

Personally, I keep my fantasies and my real life very separate.

I've also learned not to divulge any of my odder fantasies or porn preferences to girlfriends, because they often end up trying to act them out with me. *shudder*

 

[Oxnard]

I keep thinking about eventual immigration to Canada. But then I remember the winters, and how I'm just not yet rich enough to live in the Caribbean all winter after such a move.

Meh, I prefer colder climes over warmer climes.

If I get too cold, I can always just put more clothes on, but if I get too warm, there's only so much clothes I can take off before they arrest me.

 

[Oxnard]

Honestly I've been dreaming about leaving the country for good after my grandmother passes on. Denmark, Portugal, Spain, and Canada are the top contenders, and honestly it'd come down to whoever might say yes first. I used to know a lot of Portuguese. I'm willing to learn Danish and German to score more points with Immigration in Denmark. I'm fluent in Spanish. Well, conversant, anyway. My French is dreadful, and I don't understand any of it when I hear it in a conversation, though I can read it just fine. Still, I'd be looking into suburbs near Vancouver, if that was happening, so it's probably not a big deal. Canada would probably say yes first. AND they'd let me keep my US citizenship too, if I wanted. But, you might get your wish. I miss Miami, even though Chesapeake is the nicest place I've ever lived. I could go back to the hood if it was warm all the time. You never dream of someplace new? Some people dream of castration, I dream of immigration.

I grew up moving all over the world. I've seen lots of people move to other parts of the world to get away from their problems, and it rarely works out. Besides, if I left America now, I would feel horribly guilty for not trying to fix all the problems that happened with this country during my lifetime.

Anyway, I've lived in Europe, and if I were ever to move there, it would probably be to the Netherlands (and no, I have zero interest in ever visiting one of the red light districts). I loved Germany, but I liked the Netherlands better (visited a couple times). Holland is also really close to Belgium.

Unfortunately, it's also close to Luxembourg, where I ate the worst pizza of my entire life. I am never going back because of that one pizza.

 

[950483]

I understand it's just a fantasy, and I admire you for fantasizing about whatever you please and saying whatever you like. You are crazy though hahaha.
Funnily enough I could happily fantasize about castrating someone and chopping their penis off if I thought they were a person who fantasized about chopping off someone's breasts, or clitoris, or similar. Poetic justice .
Many people would be thoroughly disgusted and repulsed if the men on this site had a thread about mutilating women, and this is no different really. Fantasy is completely different to reality, but people are not likely to try and do things that they do not fantasize about, there are always people who might actually try to do these things.

 

[supersecretlemur]

Personally, I keep my fantasies and my real life very separate.

But not everyone does - and that can be a problem with certain fantasies.

I've also learned not to divulge any of my odder fantasies or porn preferences to girlfriends, because they often end up trying to act them out with me. *shudder*

I'm now curious as to the details.

 

[Oxnard]

But not everyone does - and that can be a problem with certain fantasies.


I'm now curious as to the details.

The details are awkward and embarrassing rather than sexy.

I've had multiple lesbian drinking buddies make fun of me and heterosexuals in general for the "But honey, I thought you liked to do that!" conversation. They seemed to regard it as a hetero phenomenon and as soon as I admitted to having had that conversation, they couldn't stop teasing me about it.

I've had that conversation twice in two different relationships. In both cases, my partner initiated things and told me she wanted to do it. In both cases I made it very clear (or at least I thought I did) that I didn't want to do it, that if the decision were up to me alone I wouldn't do it, but a woman's pleasure is an aphrodisiac for me and if it turned her on I would be eager to do it. Basically, I only wanted to do it because she told me she wanted to do it.

In both cases the women lied to me about wanting to do it. Worse, in both cases the women assumed that I was lying when I told them I didn't want to do it. And so we ended up doing something that neither of us enjoyed, and both of us kind of resented the other for wanting to do it. That's an incredibly embarrassing conversation to have.

Oddly enough, neither case involved anal sex, which I would have expected to be the cause given general social attitudes about anal sex and the fact that I don't like sticking my dick in that hole. One of the cases did involve something I mentioned about liking in porn but not liking in real life (don't recall the specific act, that was a long time ago).

Anyway, a woman's pleasure can be an incredible aphrodisiac for men (especially me). That is why faked orgasms work on us. For this reason, I actually am willing to violate my own preferences and will sometimes do kinky things I would rather not do (depending on the kink), but only if it is genuinely a turn on for my partner.

 

[supersecretlemur]

The details are awkward and embarrassing rather than sexy.

I've had multiple lesbian drinking buddies make fun of me and heterosexuals in general for the "But honey, I thought you liked to do that!" conversation. They seemed to regard it as a hetero phenomenon and as soon as I admitted to having had that conversation, they couldn't stop teasing me about it.

I've had that conversation twice in two different relationships. In both cases, my partner initiated things and told me she wanted to do it. In both cases I made it very clear (or at least I thought I did) that I didn't want to do it, that if the decision were up to me alone I wouldn't do it, but a woman's pleasure is an aphrodisiac for me and if it turned her on I would be eager to do it. Basically, I only wanted to do it because she told me she wanted to do it.

In both cases the women lied to me about wanting to do it. Worse, in both cases the women assumed that I was lying when I told them I didn't want to do it. And so we ended up doing something that neither of us enjoyed, and both of us kind of resented the other for wanting to do it. That's an incredibly embarrassing conversation to have.

Oddly enough, neither case involved anal sex, which I would have expected to be the cause given general social attitudes about anal sex and the fact that I don't like sticking my dick in that hole. One of the cases did involve something I mentioned about liking in porn but not liking in real life (don't recall the specific act, that was a long time ago).

Anyway, a woman's pleasure can be an incredible aphrodisiac for men (especially me). That is why faked orgasms work on us. For this reason, I actually am willing to violate my own preferences and will sometimes do kinky things I would rather not do (depending on the kink), but only if it is genuinely a turn on for my partner.

Another thing about playing out your fantasies is that once you get to play it out, the fantasy sometimes loses its luster.

 

[Oxnard]

Another thing about playing out your fantasies is that once you get to play it out, the fantasy sometimes loses its luster.

If it is something I would genuinely enjoy doing in the real world, I doubt that would happen to me. Every time this happened in the past for me, either I discovered a new thing I wanted to do all the time, or I ended up with a very pleasant memory. The problem is with the ones I wouldn't enjoy in the real world.

 

[JulenGuerrerobilbao]

I understand it's just a fantasy, and I admire you for fantasizing about whatever you please and saying whatever you like. You are crazy though hahaha.
Funnily enough I could happily fantasize about castrating someone and chopping their penis off if I thought they were a person who fantasized about chopping off someone's breasts, or clitoris, or similar. Poetic justice .
Many people would be thoroughly disgusted and repulsed if the men on this site had a thread about mutilating women, and this is no different really. Fantasy is completely different to reality, but people are not likely to try and do things that they do not fantasize about, there are always people who might actually try to do these things.

I guess it's a matter of duality. Feeling submissive or submit someone else. I think it's quite a turn on to risk so much of yourself in order to submit him/her. That's pretty exciting!
Besides, it's not about mutilating someone. Personally, I don't like gore or bloody stuff. It's about mind confrontation, who takes over whom. If she wins, I Ioose something very precious to me. The same goes for her. Again, the risk is something that everyone gets off on, whether it's a castration fantasy, a voyeur one, or a sex-in-public one.
I assume this is just a fantasy. A pretty gloomy one, but hey, everyone is entitled to fantasize. By the way, I've encounter a few women in my sexual life who are partially or completely into this, but would never do it, so keep calm, people

 

[rope9839]

I don't know if it is was fantasy, but I dated a woman who would always drop "I'll cut his dick off" or "I'll cut your dick off." Strangely, she never directed this toward me, but she used is as a way to voice displeasure over a guy's course of actions. Never the balls, she always would target the penis.

(Though I I do know that she almost ripped a guy's balls off when she found out he had a two year old with another woman. They had been married for 5 years. From what I hear, the way she let him know that she knew was biting down hard on his cock while digging her nails into his scrotum.)

She brought up the emasculation thing one time in bed when she said that one of her exes, who was small according to her, should just cut it off. She was definitely in the "size matters" camp and was pretty dismissive of guys with smaller cocks. Guys she didn't like she might say he probably had a baby dick or a Vienna sausage.

All in all, this was not a turn on. I would have been afraid to argue with her if we were sleeping int he same room. Weird stuff.

 

[Oxnard]

I don't know if it is was fantasy, but I dated a woman who would always drop "I'll cut his dick off" or "I'll cut your dick off." Strangely, she never directed this toward me, but she used is as a way to voice displeasure over a guy's course of actions. Never the balls, she always would target the penis.

(Though I I do know that she almost ripped a guy's balls off when she found out he had a two year old with another woman. They had been married for 5 years. From what I hear, the way she let him know that she knew was biting down hard on his cock while digging her nails into his scrotum.)

She brought up the emasculation thing one time in bed when she said that one of her exes, who was small according to her, should just cut it off. She was definitely in the "size matters" camp and was pretty dismissive of guys with smaller cocks. Guys she didn't like she might say he probably had a baby dick or a Vienna sausage.

All in all, this was not a turn on. I would have been afraid to argue with her if we were sleeping int he same room. Weird stuff.

Wow. Just, wow. I hope nobody hurt her to make her that way. Glad you got out of that relationship.

I've been stupidly lucky in the personality department. The overwhelming majority of my ex-girlfriends are nice, decent people. I'd like to say I know how to pick 'em, but the truth is I just got damn lucky.

 

[bigpman37]

Where can I find women like that

 

[Phil Ayesho]

I would like to ask the rest of female members if they ever had a castration and penectomy fantasy about unmaning a guy with a huge cock or i am the only crazy one

thanks

I have met women who really love the idea of dominating a man.

For some its mostly about controlling an otherwise normal male.
For others its about emasculating the man... and that the man is so totally yours that he is willing or even eager to do as you wish.

Most of those latter women never allow themselves to go so far, even in their own mind, as mutilation... although most I have spoken to get a thrill out of chastity cages, and other means of preventing a man from so much as jerking off.
And several of them have fantasies of confining their mates sexual activity to being fucked in the ass with a huge strap on... that is, they are only allowed to be penetrated... and never allowed to penetrate.

Only a couple I have met take this to its extreme... with one woman I knew 20 years back having a fantasy of finding a man who she could turn into a total bitch- and guarantee that he would never again have normal penetrative sex by literally cutting his entire package off. ( although she wanted it done surgically-not to do it herself )

And I can see the fascination, The notion of taking a heterosexual man... who is smitten with and in thrall to a dominant woman who enjoys fucking him in the ass like a bitch... taking the step of ensuring that being assfucked is his only remaining option for sexual pleasure...

And as Riven rightly points out, There ARE guys who would absolutely volunteer to undergo penectomy and castration under the dominion of a woman, ( or a man )


They call themselves Nullos... and come in two basic types... those who want to have no genitals because they are uninterested or disgusted by sex and sexuality.

And those men who want to have no dick... because their sexuality is focused on their being penetrated, only.

Unfortunately for the OP these latter are mostly gay. SO a Hetero- male who wants to be nullified is a real rare beast- but they are out there.

I can;t speak to how emotionally or mentally stable they are, or aren't... But the fantasy is not unique nor all that strange.

A google search of Nullo will point out a fairly large community of men, and even women, interested in genital nullification or surgical emasculation.

 

[Ann_bbw]

Years ago, I did some medical research from home, and penis loss was one topic I had to gather info on. I was shocked but learned rather quickly those are still men in every way, just no penis. I have since had many fantasies of a nurturing manner, helping a poor guy with his loss or talking about problems he might have (I climax every time). Another stranger but exciting fantasy is meeting a lovely kind but shy man, and after a few dates we talk over dinner. He can barely tell me he has lost his penis (accident or military) but still has his testicles in tact. Again I climax at that point every time.. Me bad!

 

[JulieInNaplesFL]

Cut off any cock over 9 inches and I'm going to be really pissed.

 

[keenobserver]

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[CageyGuy]

I do not see how anyone can equate a penectomy or bilateral orchiectomy (castration) with the sexual or otherwise mutilation of a woman or any person or animal for that matter. Original thread... I started looking at this with interest in the psychological whowhatwherewhenwhyhow elements of both fantasy and the reality from both sides. I found that throughout history the castration of both domesticated animals and humans as well has always been recognized for it's benefits. Today our society sees the neutering of animals as a normal thing automatically done and that may have created a complacency to neutering all animals. Just saying.

My back story. I am a 63 year old retiree of one year and house husband for my most wonderful wife of 15 years, Bebe. She has an upper management job with the local law enforcement that demands long hours of mental and physical efforts. She is kind, loving, caring and most of all, my best friend. Anything I can do to make her life easier and better is my full time job now. There is nothing I would not do for her. About 8 years ago we inadvertently got into male chastity by not following the warning, "Do not shop for sex toys while you have been drinking". True story. When the site popped up a few suggestions, we were both knocked absolutely breathless by a beautiful stainless steel chastity cage. Being of good credit and cash flow after some thought we had them put one in the mail right away. For the first few years we played off and on with several designs, more often and with longer periods locked. During a few month period of loose wang, my Bebe had mentioned maybe half a dozen times in different ways that she would like (love, wish, want, etc) me to wear the cage all the time. I told her I did not know if I could but I would try. Now I have been in 24/7 for the last three years. All the Femdom, BDSM, and other associated kink never appealed to us but I do really like my feelings of belonging to her.

I was originally dumbfounded as to the why some people would want castration for themselves or a loved one when starting my search. I had thought about castration a few times throughout my life but much like suicide, never a consideration. Never a fantasy. Maybe now in my new found understanding of the pros and cons, if my most beloved Bebe came to me with a logical justification for my castration I would have to give her wishes the same consideration I would give any of her requests. Maybe I would even help her.

 

[CageyGuy]

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You go LPSG. I was with all the wiener shots toward the end here but I don't have to look and don't have to reply.

Thx, Cageyguy

 

[wallyj84]

Cut off any cock over 9 inches and I'm going to be really pissed.

In the castration community there was a guy with a 10" dick, with pics, who became a nullo. He even sold a video of the procedure.

 

[ronin001]

In the castration community there was a guy with a 10" dick, with pics, who became a nullo. He even sold a video of the procedure.

You know they can do penis transplants now Wally, Sooooooooo the next guy with a 10 inch penis who wants to go under the knife and matches your blood type, you are in business