Ladies - I assume that you all are aware of this guy if you have ever visited the bangros sites. My questions is, is that too big, or is it actually a desirable size. Obviously, that is a rare size, but it is the girth that I am more referring to. Is that too much for a regular thing, or is it preferred amongst most of you? I am about 7+X5+, so not nearly as thick is that guy. Just curious.