casual nudity after accidental nudity

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  1. mictlan

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    a few weeks ago i passed out in my cousins car after drinking. he dropped me off at my brothers but the next morning i woke up and saw my brothers wife walking around topless pretty casually. she seemed really comfortable so i just figured if she was fine then i would try and not make a big deal even tho i was pretty uncomfortable.

    the following weekend, while drinking her and my brother joke about me throwing up all over myself and getting me into the shower.
    i guess while i was in the shower i took off my wet underwear and walked downstairs into the laundry room to put it to dry, still drunk.

    im guessing she was more comfortable with her nudity in our friendship after seeing me comfortable with mine (when im drunk)

    so two days ago i went to use their printer and she was getting ready for work in the nude. i pretended like i didn't notice and made an excuse to leave. i think she thinks like "well, we've seen each other naked so it shouldn't be an issue anymore" n stuff.

    my point is that, even tho nudity is not a big deal, i think she misunderstood the boundaries on our mutual comfort with it.

    i needed to get that off my chest. whew
     
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    It sounds like she is more comfortable than you. Maybe you should have a conversation with her about your feelings. It is all about trust.
     
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    I like your brother's wife.

    :wink:
     
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    Spring a woody on her and see what she does. ;-)
     
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    I'd visit more ofen or ask if I could move in for awhile
     
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    What? is she fat and ugly and obviously hitting on you or something? Or are you uncomfortable with girly parts?
     
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    did you set any boundries?....seems she is comfortable with it so whats the big deal.

    My wifes sister walked in on me naked years ago gathering up the laundry. She asked if i wanted my towels washed. I said i would bring them down and when i went down to give her the towels she was only wearing a top, i was wearing a towel.

    she said give me the towel and i was standing there naked. Now all three of us even watch movies naked together in bed. Just enjoy the freedom of clothes free living.
     
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    I think good on her if she's comfortable with that.
     
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    My wife's brother's wife accidentally walked in on me when I was completely naked, while visiting at their home. Neither of us said anything, and I casually picked-up my towel to cover myself while we talked about whatever was the purpose of her visit to our room.

    But, the fact is that she saw Everything! There was my prick, hanging down in plain sight. And I am aware that she did spend one extra second looking at my male anatomy before being able to avert her eyes upward.

    Neither of us have mentioned this incident. I have not told my wife and I am sure she did not tell her husband. But, I do feel that there has been a kind of lowering of the masks that might have kept us in mysterium from each other.

    I do feel that after a woman has seen a particular man naked she can never go back to thinking of him entirely as she did before. I do suspect that she has a very graphic mental image of my cock burned into her memory!
     
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    Mictian: That's messed up. Ain't nothing casual about her being naked in front of you. She is playing with fire and about to fuck up her marriage to your brother and your relationship with him. Run away, fast, but not hard.
     
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