Casual sex with divorced women/single mothers

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Have you ever had casual sex with divorced women and/or single mothers?

How did you get into these relationships, and is it "honourable"? By that, is it right since they may think you're using them just for sex?
 
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Had casual sex with my ex. Probably more fun than when we were married. No headaches, less bullshit, no stress.

With others you have to each instance on a case by case basis.

Some women are just like us, fucking tired of the relationship nonsense for a bit and just need to let the hormones go rogue for a while.
 

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about a year ago, I had a 40 yr old div/mother come on to me. I'm 61. over the course of a couple weeks, we ran into each other a few times. some flirting, conversation. then one night she blurts out "we should fuck sometime, I know you're married but I wanna fuck you." I told her I was flattered, but probably not gonna cheat on my wife. In the next few months she seldom spoke to me as she fucked a different guy each month. Without getting into boring details, she seems to do relationships backwards. From talking to her, she needs a big cocked guy. since I'm tall/slender, she asked me if my cock was a foot long. I told her no, I'm longer than average and very thick(7.5 x 6.5 but I didn't tell her), but not a foot long. anyway, so she fucks them first....see what you got. if the time in bed was decent, then try to get to know each other and be friends. she's been married and divorced 2-3 times and has had various live-in lovers over the years.
 

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Have you ever had casual sex with divorced women and/or single mothers? ...

Absolutely!

... How did you get into these relationships ... ?

Met, flirted, found each other attractive and wound up in bed.

... and is it "honourable"? ...

It certainly wasn't dishonorable in any way.

... is it right since they may think you're using them just for sex?

It was perfectly right and OK as they were also using me just for sex.
 

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as a divorced single mother, I find this comment somewhat amusing.

My experience and those around me tells me that you men did not and do not treat us with respect when we were married....why start now we are divorced.

Womens lib is alive and well. Bring on the casual, dirty, kinky sex. Oh, and im not going to apologize for rolling over and going to sleep as soon as I cum.
 

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I wish women would think more with their pussies and less with their hearts. FUCK it's just sex sometimes.....no hard feelings, just hard dicks. If you fuck the first night, there shouldn't be any expectations of a relationship.
 

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I had a thing once with a woman, her husband was in prison. She would randomly show up about twice per week and knock on my door. We would fuck, no strings attached.

Then things went south. The fuck buddy and my Girlfriend both showed up one night, about 20 minutes apart. I was fucking the prisoners wife as the GF showed up. It was not a pretty sight! Never blew my load that night. Nor did either of the girls ever cross my threshold again. I lost 2 women that night.
 

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As a soon to be divorcee but a single mom sex is just that sex. It doesnt mean there has to be a relationship. Hell just got out of a shitty marriage why would I want to jump into another relationship. Woman have needs just like men do. I would think if the woman is not asking for a relationship why assume there has to be one.
 

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I wish women would think more with their pussies and less with their hearts. FUCK it's just sex sometimes.....no hard feelings, just hard dicks. If you fuck the first night, there shouldn't be any expectations of a relationship.

I think more women would do that if so many men hadn't convinced women that recreational sex was sinful and gross. Just sayin.
 

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Have you ever had casual sex with divorced women and/or single mothers?

Many many time over the years.

How did you get into these relationships, and is it "honourable"? By that, is it right since they may think you're using them just for sex?

When I was used to hang out in the bars and clubs, they were all over. I guess it's right as long both adults are consenting and know what they are getting into. I never led any of them on.
 

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I wish women would think more with their pussies and less with their hearts. FUCK it's just sex sometimes.....no hard feelings, just hard dicks. If you fuck the first night, there shouldn't be any expectations of a relationship.

Maybe......just maybe, you are sending out "more than friends" signals so they will sleep with you, and therefore attracting the wrong type of women.

ALL single mothers are aware of benefits of casual sex, all the pleasure and none of the work....win, win. If you think single mothers are about to wet nurse a grown adult (aka, marriage/relationship) think again, we are WAAAY to busy for that.

Plus, thanks to online shopping you can buy a "boyfriend in a box" for about $100 :biggrin1:
 

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ALL single mothers are aware of benefits of casual sex, all the pleasure and none of the work....win, win. If you think single mothers are about to wet nurse a grown adult (aka, marriage/relationship) think again, we are WAAAY to busy for that.
and here i always thought the line about knowing all single mothers just love to fuck was men being men
 

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Yeah, I have. And I'd bet there's a good chance I have unknowingly... Its not always a conversation you have when picking up.

"Hi Hun, how are you tonight?"
"Still divorced and wondering how my bastard children are coping."
"I see. My place then, is it?"
 

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My mother found that I was too light a sleeper, and too curious about company to bring men home. After my father, I don't think she wanted another relationship. Based on certain things I remember, I think she just wanted casual sex. I remember this poor young fella kept trying to befriend me. We were kinda close in age, but I think he really thought he was going to become my step-father. Poor thing
 

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Have done it many times, I don't see it as "using them" because we both want it and like it so why not? Fun without any commitments.
 

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Sure have.

The divorced mother was a good friend of mine I used to work with. After we both got divorced, we talked a lot about our personal trials and tribulations with marriage and divorce. The conversations grew sexual in nature as we both struggled with sexuality being newly single.

One day she called and we were talking when the conversation about being horny came up. I finally got up enough nerve to offer to eat her pussy if she stopped by. Well she did, and I did. It was great getting her off. After that, I was bold enough to offer to have sex with her which she agreed to.

The sex was great - two friends enjoying sexual pleasure. It all stopped when she found a steady boyfriend and was dating heavily. We still talked but lost touch with time. I regret nothing. We both enjoyed our time together.

Simba
 

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Maybe......just maybe, you are sending out "more than friends" signals so they will sleep with you, and therefore attracting the wrong type of women.

ALL single mothers are aware of benefits of casual sex, all the pleasure and none of the work....win, win. If you think single mothers are about to wet nurse a grown adult (aka, marriage/relationship) think again, we are WAAAY to busy for that.

Plus, thanks to online shopping you can buy a "boyfriend in a box" for about $100 :biggrin1:

Well yeah everybody has needs, but do some single mothers get resentful that men want them for sex and not for dating.

In honesty, I don't like children and wouldn't want to help raise somebody else's kid.
 

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as a divorced single mother, I find this comment somewhat amusing.

My experience and those around me tells me that you men did not and do not treat us with respect when we were married....why start now we are divorced.

Womens lib is alive and well. Bring on the casual, dirty, kinky sex. Oh, and im not going to apologize for rolling over and going to sleep as soon as I cum.

Women can treat men badly. don't scold our gender for the actions of some. If a woman steals my wallet, i won't hate all women everywhere. :wink:

As for rolling over, hmmm.. those evil neurological/physiological functions, eh? chemicals get released in our brain that makes us sleep after coming, so damn the human brain, the devil created it...

Though I don't get how to approach people with sincerity and good faith should arouse suspicion or amusement.