Casual SPH among guy friends

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Have you ever experienced casual SPH among your group of friends? Post your experience and thoughts about it here.

Growing up in a dick size obsessed society, it was obviously common to hear small dick size jokes among my group of friends. One of my friends loved to make jokes were the punch line was one of the guys in our group having a small dick. I used to laugh at his jokes, but obviously created a lot of anxiety about my dick size.

When I realized my dick was actually small compared to my guys in my class, it became harder to laugh at small dick jokes. It hurt to hear the joke. But I laughed anyway, scared that if I didn't my small and shameful secret would be discovered. This was a humiliating ritual of sorts, guys making small dick jokes among their group of friends, forcing the smaller guys in the group to laugh and reinforcing to the small dick guys in the group that their dick was a joke.

I used to worry about the next time one of my male friends would make a small dick joke. I used to anguish thinking that they could tell my laugh was forced or incensire, that somehow my laugh revealed that I had the small dick they were laughing at. Then one day something changed and I discovered my SPH kink.

Suddenly, it no longer hurt to hear my guy friends making small dick jokes. Now I enjoy them and welcome them. It gave me a submissive rush to hear my hung friend jokingly tell me to "shut up" because I had "an inverted dick" - which I do get on particularly cold days. Lol. Some years ago, I got a rush when a friend who I had a threesome with (he was much bigger) drunkenly sent me a song just a few days later making fun of small dicks. I knew instantly the song made him think of me, and was rubbing my nose in my shortcoming - what had gone uncommented on during our threesome was now well established between us - I had a small dick worthy of ridicule.

What do you think? Have you experienced something similar? Share your experiences.
 
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Many decades ago I had a couple of roommates who were very well endowed. They jokingly made fun of my little penis. At first I was embarrassed, but it later played a big role in my interest in SPH.
 
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More like back handed comments about how I have the perfect cock for sucking. Comments like that jurt at the time but now they feed into my SPH fetish lol. I wish I had a thick cocked friend who wouldn't mind making those comments to me from time to time.
 
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I was often the subject of small dick jokes and jabs. Friends, school mates, even summer camps. I was always in a smaller social circle so it didn't take long for word to spread.
What types of jokes would they make? How would word spread?
 

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I'm a Dom in the BDSM Community and have made SPH video content. It's fascinating to hear these stories because so many people are against SPH and so many people are into it. Specifically noting how you found a new confidence through your kink.
 

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What do you mean my that, who found new confidence?
I should of quoted the of original poster, my apologies. I was referring to when they said "Suddenly, it no longer hurt to hear my guy friends making small dick jokes. Now I enjoy them and welcome them"
 

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More like back handed comments about how I have the perfect cock for sucking. Comments like that jurt at the time but now they feed into my SPH fetish lol. I wish I had a thick cocked friend who wouldn't mind making those comments to me from time to time.
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More like back handed comments about how I have the perfect cock for sucking. Comments like that jurt at the time but now they feed into my SPH fetish lol. I wish I had a thick cocked friend who wouldn't mind making those comments to me from time to time.

How about he makes comments about your tiny dick and his having a huge cock in front of your wife?
 

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When i was between 20 and 23 yo, my gf spread the word that i have i realy huge one. Facts is, i realy haven't. So after a party where i was drunk and let a friend piss near me, the truth was discovered and, trust me, my friends where realy happy to have fun about it.
 
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a couple come to mind, but there ARE many...


once circle jerked with a few buddies. I had the shortest dick. Went to a chinese buffet with one later. He held up an eggroll and compared it to my dick


was changing in my gym locker room to go TO the pool. This other black guy and his son came in as I was naked and they came in from a part where they were facing me basically. The guy asked me if the pool was cold, assuming i"d just gotten out since my trunks were out I guess. I was so taken aback by the question there was a noticeable delay
 

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I'm average and in real life i absolutely despise SPH. i wondered if i should report women at work asking each other in my presence if they like pencil dick. It's your employer people! Totally inappropriate.

As far as kink or BDSM scenarios, all is fair when it is agreed upon.

Again, in real life y'all need to need to learn boundaries to not unwittingly put your SPH kink onto others. Your kink is yours, not mine. Can you imagine unconsenting bondage? That would be imprisonment. Unconsenting sadism/masochism is actually assault. Unconsenting sexual intercourse is rape.