Catching your man watching porn?

[DaisyDoesIt]

and do you want to come on my face, in my hair, before or after I bite your nuts off and break your nose?

I enjoy some porn, but who came up with some of this shit?!

 

[Scarletbegonia]

My hair is a hard limit for sure, unless he's taking me into the shower and washing, conditioning, detangling and braiding it for me.

Trade offs- what you learn fumbling around.

I would say that my first willing sexual activities, were fun because the expectations were sort of foggy. So were the car windows.
We had some amazingly bad/funny moments, but it was how we learned.

I fumble around some with my guy now, because we try new things.
I'd rather get ideas externally and figure out the hows, whys and wheres with him.

Although, dating a man experienced in tantra, and who had been a teaching assistant for one of the main teachers, was amazing.

 

[danegirl]

If he'd let me, I'd suck his dick while he watched

 

[SSS79]

*blink* really?

I thought my image of men was jaded. Without porn a man can not remain loyal... fuck

interesting question by the way!
maybe it deserves a new thread, how long do you think a man can stay "sexually" loyal to one single partner - no porn or no cheating?! from what I understand from many discussions with men at different ages, men eventually get bored at some point they need to "watch" - at least watch! - some new girl, do you think this is necessarily true?

 

[MickeyLee]

Anyone can remain loyal if they make a choice to. Men seem to be excellent at justifying their behavior and transgressions.

You can't blame biological urges, once you are potty trained you have mastered biological urges. It's a matter of maturity and accountability.

I miss the hell out of women. Like almost dying for lack of relations with women. There is mad lust in my heart.
But I don't act on those desires because my choices can hurt someone I care deeply for. I choose not to delude myself with entitlement and self-victimized.

You don't get everything in life. You make choices, you gain much and forfeit some. That's being a grown-ass adult.

On the OG topic.. as long as the porn is not destructive, I don't care if he watches. I'm the one who decided porn was too negative for my continued consumption.

 

[Mule]

Anyone can remain loyal if they make a choice to.

^ This. To say otherwise is to claim that men are totally in thrall to their loins and cannot control themselves.

That's the (poor) excuse of a selfish asshole.