So today I foiled what I suspect was a catfish attempt.
Saw a hott page here. Inboxed the dude with my Skype and he adds me. I call him and he's on voice only(call Nev and Max stat !) I was about to head to work and didn't mind showing off a bit, figuring he cldnt cam since the call was just for him to get a peek and he mightn't have been able to show on such short notice(I've done no video with guys to get a taste whn I cldnt cam, so no biggie) But get this: homie's all "I wanna cum with you nooww" when I tell him I have to head out. He then sends me some very model perfect pics (I have an extremely pretty dick and charming personality, but even I know that someone who takes professional quality head-shots is unlikely to be on Skype camming with rando's - though I have cammed with some breathtakingly beautiful dudes and the whole time I was like "Why is HE on here??" in my head as I stroked) He also sends a vid of "himself" jacking (which I did not open in case it was a virus cos by now my camho senses were tingling) So I decide to call his bluff and say I wanna cum with him and I'll blow off work. Alllll of a sudden he's all "I don't have a webcam, I'm staying in a one bedroom place with family who could come home at any time, I wasn't expecting you to be on, etc" THEN when I say "No probs we can cam when you get some free time," he wants me to cum on cam while I watch "his" vid of "himself" jacking - the nerve ! (I'm a "Quid pro quo, Clarice" kind of guy on cam) Then he starts to get all up in his feelings, as these emotionally ill-equipped cammers are prone to do, and I tell him no hard feelings and disconnect.
So with this happening today, coupled with a page here that has been posting screenshots of some Middle Eastern dudes camming(without, I'm assuming, their consent) I wanted to get thoughts on what level of privacy/ respect you think should be expected when you put your dick out there? Are we 'looking for it' for jacking off in a public domain? Should people be upfront about who they are(or at least what they really look like, cos who doesn't like a little role play, right?) Do we sign off all consent when we beat off on screen where we can easily be recorded? Or should we expect a measure of mutual respect and trust(naive as it may sound)
Saw a hott page here. Inboxed the dude with my Skype and he adds me. I call him and he's on voice only(call Nev and Max stat !) I was about to head to work and didn't mind showing off a bit, figuring he cldnt cam since the call was just for him to get a peek and he mightn't have been able to show on such short notice(I've done no video with guys to get a taste whn I cldnt cam, so no biggie) But get this: homie's all "I wanna cum with you nooww" when I tell him I have to head out. He then sends me some very model perfect pics (I have an extremely pretty dick and charming personality, but even I know that someone who takes professional quality head-shots is unlikely to be on Skype camming with rando's - though I have cammed with some breathtakingly beautiful dudes and the whole time I was like "Why is HE on here??" in my head as I stroked) He also sends a vid of "himself" jacking (which I did not open in case it was a virus cos by now my camho senses were tingling) So I decide to call his bluff and say I wanna cum with him and I'll blow off work. Alllll of a sudden he's all "I don't have a webcam, I'm staying in a one bedroom place with family who could come home at any time, I wasn't expecting you to be on, etc" THEN when I say "No probs we can cam when you get some free time," he wants me to cum on cam while I watch "his" vid of "himself" jacking - the nerve ! (I'm a "Quid pro quo, Clarice" kind of guy on cam) Then he starts to get all up in his feelings, as these emotionally ill-equipped cammers are prone to do, and I tell him no hard feelings and disconnect.
So with this happening today, coupled with a page here that has been posting screenshots of some Middle Eastern dudes camming(without, I'm assuming, their consent) I wanted to get thoughts on what level of privacy/ respect you think should be expected when you put your dick out there? Are we 'looking for it' for jacking off in a public domain? Should people be upfront about who they are(or at least what they really look like, cos who doesn't like a little role play, right?) Do we sign off all consent when we beat off on screen where we can easily be recorded? Or should we expect a measure of mutual respect and trust(naive as it may sound)