caught my friend's son spying on me

[DaveyR]

You should give me the 19 year old's contact info and I'll have a man to man talk with him and answer all his sexual questions. :biggrin1:



*No offense to any 19 year olds on LPSG. Although if you are offended and want to band together and force me to suck your cocks to teach me a lesson, I certainly understand -- it's the manly thing to do. If you don't do it you're all just a bunch of little pussies. :wink:

I crack me up....

You crack me up too :biggrin1:

 

[avatarng]

i would fuck him and his dad.

 

[D_Dick_Dock_Doe]

You should give me the 19 year old's contact info and I'll have a man to man talk with him and answer all his sexual questions. :biggrin1:

But seriously folks.......

I don't think I'd talk to his father. He'll immediately think the son is gay which may or may not be true. This could ruin your relationship with your friend or his relationship with his son.

Although you don't say so, I am assuming they live far away and you spend the night, otherwise I don't know why you'd be showering there.

Keyhole? Really?? Is this some 1800's vintage building that has skeleton keys that you can look through the keyhole?

I would have asked him what he was staring at. Covering up and being embarrassed only gives him the upper hand. He smiled because he thought it was funny he got you to blink. You were doing nothing wrong. Stand your ground.

I would: 1) Lock the bathroom door from now on, and 2) hang an article of clothing over the doorknob to block the keyhole. Surely you can outsmart a 19 year old. It's not that hard to do.*

If the door doesn't lock, next time he comes in tell him you're using the room and unless he's bleeding he'll just have to wait until you're done.

*No offense to any 19 year olds on LPSG. Although if you are offended and want to band together and force me to suck your cocks to teach me a lesson, I certainly understand -- it's the manly thing to do. If you don't do it you're all just a bunch of little pussies. :wink:

I crack me up....

Dude - hilarious!

 

[CUBE]

Say nothing, shower elsewhere. He is just curious and you don't want to lose a friend.

 

[jackjackboy]

It is just curiosity. Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable talking to his father, and just wants some questions answered. He is obviously comfortable around you. Next time this happens, just ask him if he needs anything or has any questions. Don't go telling his father.

Actually, have you ever been naked around the father, your friend? Maybe he told him about you so he just wanted to check it out. If this is true, you can make a joke to your friend about his son walking in on you. See where it goes from there....but, once again, curiosity.

However, if he hits on you...well then you should just walk away and leave it at that, and not let it happen again.

 

[DaveyR]

It is just curiosity. Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable talking to his father, and just wants some questions answered. He is obviously comfortable around you. Next time this happens, just ask him if he needs anything or has any questions. Don't go telling his father.

Actually, have you ever been naked around the father, your friend? Maybe he told him about you so he just wanted to check it out. If this is true, you can make a joke to your friend about his son walking in on you. See where it goes from there....but, once again, curiosity.

However, if he hits on you...well then you should just walk away and leave it at that, and not let it happen again.

It doesn't read like curiosity to me it reads more like a blatant "trying it on". Well as blatant as any 19 year old would be under the circumstances anyway.

 

[AustinTX]

Excuse me but you have your pics up for everyone to see here in your gallery. So what's the problem? If the young man wants to see your cock, show him. If he wants more, tell him to look you up on LPSG.
Hell, I'd be flattered.

 

[DAMP1]

I would just let is pass, make sure to NOT take a shower there in the future. Perhaps play dumb; like you didn't really catch where his eyes were going and believe the flimsy excuse for the interruption. In a couple of years he will not really want to remember the embarrassment of being talked to about the situation. I think we've all done dumb things we'd rather not remember.

 

[nakedman1978]

If I were in your place I would do nothing...except chalk it up to curiosity by that young man. Why hide yourself? You're both men and have the same "equipment". There's no reason to cover up as though your body is something shameful, or that observing nudity is shameful. At his age he is wondering about older men and wanted to see about it. He did what he thought was a way to look at you. Did you think he should ask you, "may I take a look at your cock?" Were you never curious about such things yourself when you were young. Let it go.



i agree with what was said above

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

He's 19 not a child so don't talk to his father but what the fuck is wrong with you people, posting naked photos on the net does not mean he wants to show everyone in his real life his junk. Tell the creepy little Norman Bates wannabe that if you catch him spying on you again there'll be a reckoning.

 

[chrisj428]

I really don't have anything to add to this, except, I can't really blame him for looking -- you're very impressive.

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

It doesn't read like curiosity to me it reads more like a blatant "trying it on". Well as blatant as any 19 year old would be under the circumstances anyway.

I agree with Davey here, he's 19 he's not an infant. The whole thing sounds like blatant come on to me. If you're not interested in responding to the come on just react as you would if anyone else came on to you and you weren't interested, don't be a cunt about it and be polite but firm.

 

[nikebasketball18]

I agree totally with randddue, Xanth, and my original post.

How's that for large penis support?
Again, Don't. Shower. There.

 

[D_Biggo Mortensen]

How's that for large penis support?
Again, Don't. Shower. There.

Yeah, I would avoid putting yourself in that situation if you can help it. The kid clearly has no sense of personal boundaries.

 

[hungcuriousnc]

An excellent point.

I'm with them.... unless there's some interests there on your behalf, I really don't see why you're so uncomfortable.

Keep it real simple... don't shower there. Don't get naked there.

 

[Northland]

I often visit a friend of mine who has a son, aged 19. My relationship with the young man had been very normal until I caught him watching me through the key hole of the bathroon while I was showering. That was about a month ago. last week, I was taking a shower when he came in saying that he forgot something there. He stood there staring at my cock. I felt embarrassed and quickly covered my package. He smiled and went away. What would you do if you were in my place?

Better nip this in the bud. First he eyed you through the keyhole, then he came right in. Next thing is to grab your thing-a-mah-bobber and maybe start to slobber on it. That could destroy your friendship with Chet's dad or mom (you didn't state the gender of the friend you're visiting). Tell him that he's old enough to not be doing this and that you will not abide such behavior. He's an adult and should conduct himself as one.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

If his friend lives a distance away and he is staying overnight there, the advice not to shower there doesn't really makes sense. He should lock the door. If the door doesn't have a lock, kick the dude out next time he comes in. Tell him he'll just have to wait.

 

[Viking_UK]

He's 19, so don't have a chat with his parents. Take him aside discreetly and ask him if there's anything he wants to say to you. Tell him you don't appreciate being spied on, and that he should stop or there will be consequences. If he does want to talk to you about anything sexual, be approachable, but keep your distance if that makes any sense. Be like an older brother or uncle and give him advice without becoming involved.

In answer to some of the other posters, there's a big difference between putting pictures of yourself which you want people to see on the internet and someone spying on you. It's called consent.

 

[Pendlum]

If I were in your place I would do nothing...except chalk it up to curiosity by that young man. Why hide yourself? You're both men and have the same "equipment". There's no reason to cover up as though your body is something shameful, or that observing nudity is shameful. At his age he is wondering about older men and wanted to see about it. He did what he thought was a way to look at you. Did you think he should ask you, "may I take a look at your cock?" Were you never curious about such things yourself when you were young. Let it go.

If they have the same equipment there is no reason he needs to spy on someone elses. There is the internet and books for that if he really just wants to look.

Everyone here always associates not wanting others to see you naked with being ashamed. I think it is absurd to think that is always the case. I can see how it could easily be just associating being nude with sex. I don't want some big hairy guy staring at me in the nude in person. But on the other hand if it was some super model I would most likely not cover up and stand there in my nude glory. I'm going to stop and make a very important point here too. He said staring. It isn't just some casual nude situation, so you don't have to treat it like one. Covering up your body is one way of saying "Hey, I'm not interested in you, so stop staring at my junk like you want it."

I skimmed this thread only a bit, but I like giozam's advice. Be clear and stern and set your boundaries, let him know it isn't okay with you. If that fails employ the dragon kick.

Also I find it strange that you take showers often at their house.

I agree with SP with gusto on the fact that having your pictures on a site pretty much dedicated to your junk doesn't some how invalidate wanting privacy. Looking at a picture and being there in person is way different. You don't see who is looking at the picture, or what they are doing. You can't hear them talk. And of course the fact that seeing something in person is completely different than seeing something in a picture. Now I haven't looked at the OPs gallery, and don't plan on doing so, but if he doesn't have pictures of his face, that just adds another layer of it being different, since it is much more anonymous. Not to mention that he knows the person very well, at least more than anyone who looks at his pictures most likely.

Again, dragon kick as a last resort.

 

[nicenycdick]

It seems to me that you want some sort of permission from us to do...something with this kid.

You shouldn't. OK?