Caught my Girlfriend's Brother watching Bi Porn

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  1. B_curiousaboutthis

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    I setup my girlfriend's brothers computer so I could provide support to it via remote control software. Out of curiosity I connected to it late one night and discovered him surfing porn. Most of it was str8 porn but he watched one video of a dude blowing another dude. He also watched a black chick blow a horse. Wish he had a web cam I could access!
     
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    Hmmm - does he know you can view what he's surfing on?? Kinda sounds like a bit of an invasion of privacy. :S
     
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    He knows I can connect, I just suppose he doesn't think I would unless he needed me to.
     
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    Why do you care what your GF's Brother is surfing on the internet?
     
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    Ahh ok. I'd be a bit panic-stricken if ppl were monitoring what I watched, lol (not that I view dodgy stuff, of course :wink:).

    Maybe let him surf in peace? But other than that, welcome to the site man. :)
     
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    I'm curious about what everybody surfs on the net, especially when they think no one is watching.
     
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    You can be curious, but don't act to that curiosity, that is wrong. It's the same as someone invading your computer, home, etc...
     
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    Sounds like you might be bi or gay and are wishing your GF's brother is as well based on some unrequited attraction.

    Also -- Spying on people is creepy.
     
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    Not cool. Stop invading his privacy.
     
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    maybe he's bi, maybe he just likes watching porn, all porn, any porn.
    i'd be more concerned as to why you offered to help him, gained his trust, and then used that to violate him the way you did.
     
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    I have to agree with what everyone has said here. Just ask yourself how you would like someone monitoring everything you do on-line. It's a total breach of trust and invasion of privacy. Hell, I'm straight and I've watched all kinds of porn on-line imcluding gay and bi - so what! I'm sure that gay guys have watched straight porn on-line as well.

    Stop doing what you're doing before this guy finds out. If someone was doing that to me, I would be so pissed off that I would never speak to them again.
     
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    buddy....not good....if i were you....STOP IT...u have a re-lationship with this man...enjoy who he is not what his fantasy is......we all have them as i am sure you do also...be his friend,confidant,family member...not his judge!
     
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    Stop invading his privacy and spying on him.
     
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    The internet and its users are so humorous.
     
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    Stupido! You should be ashamed of yourself.
     
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    I use the same type of software to help my family members and friends with their computers (I'm no IT guy, but geez, some of them can't turn the thing ON...). Hard and fast rule: Never, ever, ever connect to their computer without (a) securing their permission every single time, which necessitates (b) notifying them beforehand that you're going to do it and what you intend to do. ("Ok, I'm going to connect to your computer now so I can figure out why you're stuck, is that all right? It is? Ok, I'm connecting. Now, see me moving around in here? You do? Ok, now we're going to open Microsoft Word....".

    They've trusted me with access to a very personal space; I don't abuse their trust.
     
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    good advice
     
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    Thats a really shitty thing to do to him - you gained his trust by offering to help him out and you have totally abused that power. You may get some sort of thrill from knowing what your girlfriends brother looks at online, but that really isn't cool to spy on someone and invade their privacy to such a degree. The moral thing to do would be to never connect to his computer again, but I have a feeling you wont do that...
     
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    It might be hard to hear all this criticism - but if possible take it on board, move on and just don't do it again. :)
     
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    curious-would you like your girlfriend to know that you go to a site about big cocks?
     
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