Caught wife sexting w/another man

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Guys, what would you do?
i caught the wife sexting with a ex professor of hers. she started being very suspicious while on the phone, deleting conversations, getting nervous when i asked to use her phone, i noticed something was going on and managed to spy on her whatsapp while she was texting i was watching everything on the computer. i confronted her telling her i knew everything that i just wanted to hear it from her mouth, the professor its out of town for vacations since about a week, she says it was just that, i dont really know what to believe, she spent the night begging me for forgiveness, swearing it was just texting.

what would you do? should i part ways? should i teach her a lesson? im very pissed, i feel betrayed, i don't know if i can trust on her anymore... if that guy wouldn't have went on vacations or if i didn't had find out about this i dont know what could have happened.
 

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You should start by losing some (okay, a lot of) weight and getting rid of the penis pump.

Maybe make yourself a little more attractive and your wife will stop looking at other men.
 
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Don't blame you for feeling betrayed. That hurts. It's clear the relationship means a lot to you, then try to salvage it with her. The fact that she is apologetic means a lot, but your relationship clearly has deeper problems that need to be addressed.
 

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i noticed she sometimes would get nervous when i looked at her screen, i once asked to borrow her phone and she hesitated a bit, she unlocked it and deleted some conversations before handing it over, thats when the red flag showed up. that professor helped her with her thesis about a month ago, she told me he was very helpful, then i noticed they were still taking, she left her facebook open and i noticed that their old "thesis" conversation was deleted. i started peeking on her phone while she was on the shower (she does not know i knew her password to unlock) and some conversations with him were like bye / bye from both sides like she deleted the chat and then after everything they said was erased he said bye and a new window opened. clearly showing that previous conversation was deleted. i could not really see what they were talking about. but once i confronted her "pretending to know everything" she said that it was just sexting and nothing more. they would exchange pictures, she said she only sent topless pics.
 

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i noticed she sometimes would get nervous when i looked at her screen, i once asked to borrow her phone and she hesitated a bit, she unlocked it and deleted some conversations before handing it over, thats when the red flag showed up. that professor helped her with her thesis about a month ago, she told me he was very helpful, then i noticed they were still taking, she left her facebook open and i noticed that their old "thesis" conversation was deleted. i started peeking on her phone while she was on the shower (she does not know i knew her password to unlock) and some conversations with him were like bye / bye from both sides like she deleted the chat and then after everything they said was erased he said bye and a new window opened. clearly showing that previous conversation was deleted. i could not really see what they were talking about. but once i confronted her "pretending to know everything" she said that it was just sexting and nothing more. they would exchange pictures, she said she only sent topless pics.
Wow. Only sexting? Are you kidding me she is a married women. Maybe let her have it on how u feel and be firm. Then maybe pay the guy a visit. He obviously knew she was married.
 

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I don't see it as being that different from you wanting to find a man to suck your dick. You say she was "sexting" but your original post doesn't say anything about her actually doing so. Being suspicious? Sure. Maybe being shady? Sure. I wonder how she would feel about posts from you like this one, though

What causes so many married men to have a suck buddy?

You forgot to drop the mic....
 

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I don't see it as being that different from you wanting to find a man to suck your dick. You say she was "sexting" but your original post doesn't say anything about her actually doing so. Being suspicious? Sure. Maybe being shady? Sure. I wonder how she would feel about posts from you like this one, though

What causes so many married men to have a suck buddy?

Lmao amazing post!
 
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