Ava Gardner, Lana Turner, and Mia Farrow all had relationships with Frank Sinatra. i think i read somewhere that Lana called him "the tripod" and in his butler's auto he wrote called "Mr. S: My Life with Frank Sinatra" that he was so long and thick he had to strap his cock to his leg and wear special underwear.. “There’s only ten pounds of Frank, but there’s 110 pounds of cock,” Ava Gardner once told a British diplomat at a social function.