voyeuristic
Sexy Member
Not all of them, Idris - I can do casual sex with some people just fine. 19 year old boys, for instance.
I love her. I've had other offers, but I love her. I'm not sure what the deal is. She's on meds, not happy with her own body, not open to communication. Sorry, I just needed to blow off some steam. Feel like I'm stuck in a fucked place where I'm damned if I do, and damned if I don't, and I guess I'd rather be damned if I don't, not that it's much of a choice.
I swore an oath when I married her. I've respectfully turned down offers in the midst of my woes just because it seems morally wrong to me. Maybe I just need to adjust my thinking and adopt a "don't ask, don't tell" policy when it comes to where my cock has been. It's certainly not getting any use at home. Seems a shame to let it lie fallow forever.
I suggest mASF Discussion Forum on Fast Seduction 101
and read the "relationships" board.
You need to go through a de-betaisation process because your wife has turned you into a beta male, so she'll never be horney again until you fix that.
a quick guide to it is
1- never be submissive
2- flirt with other women in front of her
3- be emotionally non-reactive if she gives you any shit.
good luck
well shoot - Am I a dreaded "thread killer??"
Coming up on sixteen years of marriage, celibate for a year and a half now. Just needed to vent and didn't know where else to do it. Sorry, I'm miserable. Make sure if you get married you have compatible sex drives.:frown1: