31 years later, she tells me. It's a boy! I was married to her maybe a few months (she says it was 63 days), she was kinda psycho. We split & she met a man, realized she was pregnant, I'd disappeared in a drunken frenzy & hadn't any idea she was pregnant. The man married her, gave the child his name and raised him. They had 3 other sons and it all was fine. Except a year back, that child became curious and wanted information. They located me (it's a rare name) and made contact. Then we got together and met. Even though he looks like family (my mom's brothers thick wavy black hair and my dad's nose) I needed proof. All agreed, we had the testing done (3X, I wanted to be sure) and each test said he's mine. Naturally he's a charming young man just like his dad.:smile:. He graduated college (whew! escaped that expense:biggrin1 and is happy in life, with a good job and life partner. I guess we'll take it a little at a time. After all these years I have a son! it'll give symmetry to family pics with me & my daughters.:smile:.