Cervical orgasms?

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I am a shade above average and have great sex with my girlfriend, so I know size isn't important for us, although I dont reach her cervix. She is highly orgasmic and experiences clitoral and g spot orgasms. She has told me that she had frequent cervical orgasms with an ex (I asked as I'm not jealous although I'm not into sph and I'm not a cuckold).

When she asked her friends about this type of orgasm when she used to have them, none of them understood, saying cervical contact was painful. So we have been having great fun using sex toys to replicate the cervical orgasms but have had no luck, it's just painful. She described the cervical orgasm as being a knock-knock-knock on the cervix when she was very aroused that started out as bearable pain and built up to intense pleasure and explosive orgasms.

My question is whether there are guys here whose ladies do have those type of orgasms (I'm assuming they're cervical because of the 'pain' element), and if you do, if there is any specific technique I can use with a sex toy? I completely get every woman is different and nobody reacts the same in sex and orgasm, but any feedback from guys whose partners get these type of orgasms would be helpful.
 
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The trick is to slide under the cervix and stretch the cul de sac, that's when the moaning starts.

But that would make it cul de sac/A spot orgasm surely? Is the resulting orgasm in your case very explosive and longlasting? And does the woman say she feels your cock brushing past the cervix, causing a 'pleasurable pain'?
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But that would make it cul de sac/A spot orgasm surely? Is the resulting orgasm in your case very explosive and longlasting? And does the woman say she feels your cock brushing past the cervix, causing a 'pleasurable pain'?
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You need to ask some females that have a better sense of anatomy. Behind the cervix there are pleasure centers. I have seen some good graphics on here but I don’t recall the post.

I feel like “cervix” is a catch all phrase (used by men and women) that just means deep lol
 

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But that would make it cul de sac/A spot orgasm surely? Is the resulting orgasm in your case very explosive and longlasting? And does the woman say she feels your cock brushing past the cervix, causing a 'pleasurable pain'?
Thanks

I've heard different people assign the A Spot label to different locations, but regardless of terminology you'll usually find orgasm spots both in front of AND behind her cervix (just don't pound away at the cervix itself!)

If you only have an average-sized cock, you can still unleash extremely prolonged orgasm waves from the front one (because it doesn't need to reset nearly as much as her clitoris) by using your fingers in the come-hither motion like when you stimulate her g-spot, just go deeper up and inside her than what you do for the g-spot. When you reach it, you'll both know. You can also give her a "running start" on it by stimulating each of her kitty's orgasm spots in succession working from the outside inward, and then once you're familiar with how each of them is wired on her unique body, explore stimulating different combinations of them simultaneously to make her melt even more completely into a quivering puddle of ecstatic beauty.
 

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I've heard different people assign the A Spot label to different locations, but regardless of terminology you'll usually find orgasm spots both in front of AND behind her cervix (just don't pound away at the cervix itself!)

If you only have an average-sized cock, you can still unleash extremely prolonged orgasm waves from the front one (because it doesn't need to reset nearly as much as her clitoris) by using your fingers in the come-hither motion like when you stimulate her g-spot, just go deeper up and inside her than what you do for the g-spot. When you reach it, you'll both know. You can also give her a "running start" on it by stimulating each of her kitty's orgasm spots in succession working from the outside inward, and then once you're familiar with how each of them is wired on her unique body, explore stimulating different combinations of them simultaneously to make her melt even more completely into a quivering puddle of ecstatic beauty.

Thanks, that's all very helpful and enlightening. Gives me something to work on. I guess the fingers are better than a dildo because of the flexibility element?
 

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I am a shade above average and have great sex with my girlfriend, so I know size isn't important for us, although I dont reach her cervix. She is highly orgasmic and experiences clitoral and g spot orgasms. She has told me that she had frequent cervical orgasms with an ex (I asked as I'm not jealous although I'm not into sph and I'm not a cuckold).

When she asked her friends about this type of orgasm when she used to have them, none of them understood, saying cervical contact was painful. So we have been having great fun using sex toys to replicate the cervical orgasms but have had no luck, it's just painful. She described the cervical orgasm as being a knock-knock-knock on the cervix when she was very aroused that started out as bearable pain and built up to intense pleasure and explosive orgasms.

My question is whether there are guys here whose ladies do have those type of orgasms (I'm assuming they're cervical because of the 'pain' element), and if you do, if there is any specific technique I can use with a sex toy? I completely get every woman is different and nobody reacts the same in sex and orgasm, but any feedback from guys whose partners get these type of orgasms would be helpful.

This is a topic of interest for me, as well. I think it requires a woman AND an instrument weilder to work together. You also need both in the comment section to be able to answer all the how and wheres

I can only provide half. In my limited experience with a 7” penis, it’s very difficult to tell what is going on in there!

When I learned about the af/pf culcdesac stuff, I tried to probe them. This is primarily on one partner, but I remember trying to figure it out with another. I guess the cervixes on both women were toward the back, rather than the anterior where anatomical drawings have it. For my part it is very difficult to feel where you are relative to the fornix and cervix. In both of these women I found the cervix right in the middle in the very back. Angling up or down would just feel like vagina for the most part, but like, the end of it pushing softly on the end of the penis. The cervix is harder in texture and it does a good job of staying out of the way, but should be distinctive when felt. In one woman I remember angling down with a stroke and then levering my penis head up ward . When the head would go from bottom to top it would brush the cervix in between on the way with varying intensity depending on how aggressive (or deep). This did induce orgasm many times. My current partner can’t really tell me all the time what is going on. Direct pressure seems ok if very gentle, but I think it’s the area around the cervix that really does it for her. It has become more clear to me that the af,pf, and cervix are not as separated as I thought and difficult to distinguish from a sensation POV.

I wonder how well women can tell which spot makes them cum. I think my partner knows when it’s happenin, but does not know how to tell me to get there. Af has been really good for her and feels more snug than pf. Pf seems to do it more regularly. I’m not a woman but it seems like it would be really hard to tell what is making you cum between the cervix and the fornix. These two partners both have vaginal and clitoral orgasms but they have never distinguished between cervix or either fornix for their vaginal orgasm
 

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@Nosuportneeded Cracking post, thank you. This comment of yours is of particular interest to me: When the head would go from bottom to top it would brush the cervix in between on the way with varying intensity depending on how aggressive (or deep). This did induce orgasm many times.

My girlfriend says this knock-knock-knock on her cervix could only build up to orgasm if the thrusting was hard and deep in missionary - pounding, if you like. She said the most obvious feeling at the start was pain, and I'm assuming that's glans brushing past the cervix. She said the pressure was intense and the orgasm led to tingling all over her body that lasted 30 minutes. Not everytime, though, but often. It's the pain that makes me think this might not be the fornixes that her ex was contacting - but I also doubt his pounding was hitting the cervix full on as I am sure that would be too powerful for most women.

It is a fascinating topic, made more mysterious by the fact that my girlfriend (and I am sure most other women) have this attitude: 'I don;t know exactly where and how he was hitting back there, and I don;t want to look into it too much, it makes an incredible experience just seem mechanical.'
 
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i've written several times about a-spot orgasms, and i've heard of cervical orgasms or "c-spot" orgasms. good article about it here: "Cervical Orgasms" Exist & Here's How To Have One

just remember, for most women, the cervix is made of firm cartilage, not soft tissue, and the number of nerve endings in the cervix is minimal compared to other areas of the vagina and clitoris. I think the author is correct when she brings up it's more likely a result of nerve conduction, or pleasure displacement from the inner clitoris than anything else.

(side note - if you've never researched the anatomical structure of the clitoris, do it NOW.)
 

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I don't do it much cause it's, I dunno....weird, but my wife likes her cervix stimulated.

Summary:

- Long ago I "discovered" it during some finger play. Any kind of touching and playing with the opening area was not good.

- She had 2 kids

- Forward to now, nearly 20 years after the initial play. I was doing some fingering again, and happened to hit the cervix...this time it caused a pleasurable moan. Being the science dork that I am, I experimented further and was met with more positive feedback.
At this point I was like, "Fuck it", and pushed the tip of my finger in. She LOVED it.
Had I continued, it sounded like she would orgasm from it, but I stopped. Again, it seemed like a weird thing to be doing and I didn't know the possible health consequences of fingering the cervical entrance.

The paraphrased exchange:

Me: so, you liked that spot?
Her: yes
Me: you know that was your cervix, right?
Her: really?
Me: yeah...I had my finger in the hole
Her: well, it felt really good
 
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Look up the anterior and posterior fornix. Also, maybe ask women instead of men about women's anatomy :p


Clearly we are trying to ask women. It says it in his post and mine. But it might be a good idea to put this in “ask a woman” too

For the record, I put a similar post in “ask a woman” and got exactly 3 short responses from one woman. One of which referred me to an anatomy drawing. (Great insight there)

Not being ungrateful, but I am expressing that 1. We are welcoming (perhaps preferring, even) responses from women, and 2. I have made that effort. Some of what I relayed here came from women that I asked
 
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Clearly we are trying to ask women. It says it in his post and mine. But it might be a good idea to put this in “ask a woman” too

For the record, I put a similar post in “ask a woman” and got exactly 3 short responses from one woman. One of which referred me to an anatomy drawing. (Great insight there)

Not being ungrateful, but I am expressing that 1. We are welcoming (perhaps preferring, even) responses from women, and 2. I have made that effort. Some of what I relayed here came from women that I asked

The original post says "My question is whether there are guys here" and "any feedback from guys" :no_mouth:
 

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@Nosuportneeded Cracking post, thank you. This comment of yours is of particular interest to me: When the head would go from bottom to top it would brush the cervix in between on the way with varying intensity depending on how aggressive (or deep). This did induce orgasm many times.

My girlfriend says this knock-knock-knock on her cervix could only build up to orgasm if the thrusting was hard and deep in missionary - pounding, if you like. She said the most obvious feeling at the start was pain, and I'm assuming that's glans brushing past the cervix. She said the pressure was intense and the orgasm led to tingling all over her body that lasted 30 minutes. Not everytime, though, but often. It's the pain that makes me think this might not be the fornixes that her ex was contacting - but I also doubt his pounding was hitting the cervix full on as I am sure that would be too powerful for most women.

It is a fascinating topic, made more mysterious by the fact that my girlfriend (and I am sure most other women) have this attitude: 'I don;t know exactly where and how he was hitting back there, and I don;t want to look into it too much, it makes an incredible experience just seem mechanical.'


This last part is frustrating. Especially when we are told to ask a woman, but I totally get it

I forgot to mention that brushing across the cervix was done in missionary

Also the slight pain and the pounding get my current partner there, in doggy once she’s ready. Definitely a fine line on how hard to hit the “bottom” for her
 
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I've experienced it with a few women but only had one girlfriend where we figured out how to hit it consistently, I'm 7" and i couldn't tell you whether anterior or posterior i couldn't care enough to read that much into it but you knew you were hitting it cause you can feel yourself pop through another hole, I'd basically fold her in half with her legs on my shoulders and slowly push myself all the way in, sometimes it took a little gentle poking around but there was no question about when i was in, not only could i feel it but her eyes would roll back and her expression would be absolute pleasure, few minutes of gentle thrusting was all it took and she'd be incoherent having these ridiculous full body orgasms
 

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It must also be remembered that the cervix gets lower when a girl is mid cycle. I can just reach my Asian wife 's cervix when she is pre menstrual but I have to be careful when she is mid cycle. Sadly I am never long enough to enter the fornixes.
I had a friend who was huge-an upward curving 9 inches x 5 inches and he used to delight in watching the shape of his cock in his wife's belly as he fucked her missionary and caused her to scream in orgasm.
He was also able to stay rock hard even after coming 3 times. Sadly missed since he died 4 years ago.
 
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Clearly we are trying to ask women. It says it in his post and mine. But it might be a good idea to put this in “ask a woman” too

For the record, I put a similar post in “ask a woman” and got exactly 3 short responses from one woman. One of which referred me to an anatomy drawing. (Great insight there)

Not being ungrateful, but I am expressing that 1. We are welcoming (perhaps preferring, even) responses from women, and 2. I have made that effort. Some of what I relayed here came from women that I asked

Exactly my point. There is no guarantee of comprehensive responses in 'Ask a woman' - or indeed in 'Ask a man'. My experience is that when men do something to a woman that drives her ape, they are curious about what they've done and/or hit in her vagina (and because us guys like to think our dicks are magic wands!). Men - who are clearly the majority on this site - will oftentimes ask a woman what they did to give that orgasm, and what they were contacting. So while it's obvious that women know their anatomy far better than a man ever could, many men will have been curious enough to do the research across a few women and figure things out. Sorry, long-winded point, I know.

Also, I meant 'guys' to denote men and women.
 
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