Do I look like a fucking reindeer? Prancer pranced Otheres dance.Do any other straight guys wish they could prance around like this guy and still find acceptance? (I mean not that effeminate gay men are well-regarded even by gay society either but still).
I'm basically asking for other effeminate straight men to talk about their experiences or the repression they have felt during their lives.Do I look like a fucking reindeer? Prancer pranced Otheres dance.
And what exactly are you asking or implying?
I'm referring to those who routinely violate the norms of hegemonic masculinity and are not gayGuys like that are not looking for validation from people like "you". They know they're gay
I'm referring to those who routinely violate the norms of hegemonic masculinity and are not gay
ok then we kinda are on the same page; also I did visit his site before making this thread and never indicated that he meant to be harmfulHe's not violating anything! He's making a silly, fashion model & runway video for YouTube. Perhaps if you actually saw the guy's website you'd know that this particular person doesn't mean any harm.
The concept of masculinity goes much deeper than what society accepts as "social norms". I'd much rather see a straight person who is comfortable with their own sexuality not be afraid to "prance around" (as you said it), then watch a gay person, due to their own insecurities & paranoid feelings of social perception, fight to stay in a closet just to be liked by closed-minded people.
I'm referring to those who routinely violate the norms of hegemonic masculinity and are not gay
I'd much rather see a straight person who is comfortable with their own sexuality not be afraid to "prance around" (as you said it), then watch a gay person, due to their own insecurities & paranoid feelings of social perception, fight to stay in a closet just to be liked by closed-minded people.