Ok.. I don't do too much exercise, coz iv been gifted with a pretty good metabolism.. BUT maybe once a fortnight i will visit the local pool to get myself off my lazy arse. Anyway the last few times (i think the last 3 consecutive times in about 4 weeks) i have been i have noticed the same guy in the showers.. while i am there. I don't go at regular times either! sometimes after uni, sometimes on weekends.. but anyway, i normally don't notice who is in the showers.. but this guy is a little strange... this is why: He blatantly stares at my penis. I mean.. yeah its ok to glance once in a while, and im not ashamed of my body so if someone looks i dont mind. But yeah i found it odd that when i looked accross at him he was looking down there. I, and most guys, face the wall while showering, and turn around on occasion to wash our backs or something. But this guy is always facing away from the wall, looking at me, whenever i turn around. I should prob add that he is always showering opposite me. I should prob tell you that the shower room is a rectangular room with shower heads on either side of the wall. Showers with his glasses on? is that normal? Well anyway these characteristics made this guy sort of stand out in my memory. Today i went again. And i think it was today that got me thinking that this is more than just a coincidence. Well i got there to change into my swimmers and he appears out from nowhere.. right next to me, glancing erratically as i put my swimmers on, and even looking at my crotch when i have them on. And in my head im just like wtf? this guy again? anyway i take my swim.. and dont see him anywhere in the pool. and go back to take a shower. It is empty but for maybe one person i think. SO i am showering there against the wall - i like to take a thorough shower after a swim - shampoo and all! anyway, i turn around to clean my back, and guess who is there hesitantly looking at my penis. His eyes dart from my eyes to my penis. so yeah i just go about my business and wait for him to leave. However he takes ages, and only leaves after i do. There are other weird mannerisms of this guy, and his general persona that just make him a bit creepy, and is hard to describe in words, but is just a feeling i get. So yes - my question: CAN this be merely a recurring coincidence!? Well it doesn't really matter how everyone answers this.. coz it seems i have made my mind up anyway. But it just sucks! coz i enjoy taking a shower naked in communal showers, and yes i don't mind someone taking a peek at mine, and i taking a peek at someone else's. We're all guys and we all have penises... and we are all human, and all curious! But i think this guy sort of overstepped the line with the staring, and stalkerish behaviour. I guess if i see him again, ill keep my swimmers on, to send him the message that his actions are making me quite uncomfortable!