This will probably sound like bullshit to some. But years ago now I added his Snap, he accepted and messaged me a selfie. Started talking to me. Not sure if he thought I was a girl, I never told him I was. We spoke for a bit, he was nice. I asked him if he would ever do anything with a guy and he said he was kinda curious but not really enough to act on it.
I always hoped he'd do more.