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Last nights Chat stirred up some tensions between some of the established members, and some of the new folks.
First - This site IS for all regions of the world, and you ARE welcome here to participate in the descussions. This is not a U.S. site only.
Secondly - Sometimes it can SEEM like the older members have this group click, but that notion should be dismissed. People get to know people on here, some even in person, so they tend to stick with who they like.
It is NOT a display of rejection amongst new members.
Do the minimum of filling out your profile, and you'll find many more friends quickly with the same tastes as you.
Third - The Language Barrier. I'm acceptant to other languages, and I think its very cool that we have other folks on here that speak many.
Please keep in mind that there are other folks that do not understand these languages.
Here's where I need the Gal's and Guys opinion:
If you are in a room with other folks carrying on a discussion or topic, then 2 other people walk up and start talking in a native toungue which you do not understand, do you consider that rude?
I was ok for a while, and then it just got carried away.
A few lines were no problem...but then it seemed to consume the screen.
People were dropping out because they didn't speak spanish.
Then the taunts where certain groups have the biggest penis, and your jealous and all that other crap. Please, that doesn't work on me.
I feel if your going to carry on a long conversation with someone else, in a foreign dialect, that you should have the courtesy to do it in private.
To continuously speak in a foreign toungue in a primarily english speaking chatroom is just plain rude, and ignorant (when your doing it On purpose).
What's your thoughts?
First - This site IS for all regions of the world, and you ARE welcome here to participate in the descussions. This is not a U.S. site only.
Secondly - Sometimes it can SEEM like the older members have this group click, but that notion should be dismissed. People get to know people on here, some even in person, so they tend to stick with who they like.
It is NOT a display of rejection amongst new members.
Do the minimum of filling out your profile, and you'll find many more friends quickly with the same tastes as you.
Third - The Language Barrier. I'm acceptant to other languages, and I think its very cool that we have other folks on here that speak many.
Please keep in mind that there are other folks that do not understand these languages.
Here's where I need the Gal's and Guys opinion:
If you are in a room with other folks carrying on a discussion or topic, then 2 other people walk up and start talking in a native toungue which you do not understand, do you consider that rude?
I was ok for a while, and then it just got carried away.
A few lines were no problem...but then it seemed to consume the screen.
People were dropping out because they didn't speak spanish.
Then the taunts where certain groups have the biggest penis, and your jealous and all that other crap. Please, that doesn't work on me.
I feel if your going to carry on a long conversation with someone else, in a foreign dialect, that you should have the courtesy to do it in private.
To continuously speak in a foreign toungue in a primarily english speaking chatroom is just plain rude, and ignorant (when your doing it On purpose).
What's your thoughts?