Chat, What Is It Good For? (absolutely Nothing?)

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Back in the day...what 10 years ago? 15? When a chat room was just that - a room where people chatted. Now a day we've got this fancy video chat but nobody actually says anything and there's like 100:1 guy to girl ratio. Now chat rooms have never been close to 50:50 but I seriously feel bad for the one lady in the room most likely getting bombarded by cam invites.

Even from a straight guy perspective its a meat market - the moment I step in there i get a ton of cam requests from guys I don't know. Not a hi or a hows it going just a show me your dick.

So does anyone actually chat there any more or is it just best to avoid?
 
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I go in chat occasionally and coz I mainly go in on my phone I don't get any requests to watch cams and do chat but mainly with those I know
 
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Nope. I haven't been in chat in forever, but it was nothing but "Cam?" "Cam?" "Cam?" requests.

I like the forums and PMs with people I want to communicate with 1:1. I would consider chat with someone I've been PMing with if they were online at the same time, but rarely have the need/availability.
 

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I went into chat exactly once. I was bombarded with cam requests. I thought I could go in and just shoot the shit for awhile, but no, it was “watch me wank”. So never again.

I stick to the forums. :grinning:
 

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I used to go in there years ago. Men would send dick pics without asking, and if I was typing and hit "Enter" a penis would resolve on my screen. And yes, you had to let it fully load before you could delete it.

At least people bantered though. It was fast and funny in there. Last time I peeked in, lots of folks were signed in, but nobody was chatting publicly. Boring.
 

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"So and So wants you to meet them in a private room" and "C2C?" requests .....ah yes. All I recall is a sinister and unwanted ocular assault and a strong desire for this to not happen again.

Chat was kind of the business years back...maybe 5, 6 years ago. People would actually, well, chat. That concept now seems too arcane and uncomfortable. Unable to use words well, they wave their weenies in front of as many women as possible. Kinda lame and not my scene.


I'm not sure how to get chat back to its former state of, well, I guess being ... fine?
I didn't use it all that often.
I also stick to the forums and stuff.

Seems to be a bit of a theme here ladies. That's cool if it's your jam, however some people enjoy good conversation and I'm one of them and I would not go to chat for that.
 
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I still like to chat now and then. Sometimes multiple times a week.

The quality has fallen considerably since I joined (no @cigarettebaby policing the chat while smoking her 80 daily cigs anymore) - but it can still be great fun. Often it's the last thing I do before going to sleep - a good laugh before closing my eyes.

Originally I used the full chat client but honestly whenever I was on cam people just commented on my looks as if I was a piece of meat. So I stopped doing it after the first month or so.

I only use the text only chat now. Originally for security reasons (flash being extremely insecure) but in the text only chat there's no invites, no cams, no multiple rooms to switch between. It's all I need - chatting without the hassle.
 
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I went in when I first joined. Sounded harmless enough... "chat"

Didn't last long. A few seemingly cool peeps able to carry on a convo, but mostly:

"Hi. What are you wearing?"
"Um, a man's hoody over pyjamas"
"Mmmmmmm"
"I'm outta here"

"Click on my cam"
"I'm outta here"

"What's the biggest you've had?"
*Ignore*

"Why are you here?"
"Fuck off"
 

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BacknForth, post: 18599671, member: 924715"

"Hi. What are you wearing?"
"Um, a man's hoody over pyjamas"
"Mmmmmmm"



As I read this, I couldn’t help but wonder how much I could get away in creative substitution...for what’s underlined while still eliciting an ‘Mmmmmmm” response.

Then again, that’s just me because if someone isn’t paying attention anyways...

“Um, a ‘general competence is on the fucking decline’ type of vague facial expression.”
‘Mmm sounds kinda hot’